Reblogging Because This Also Happened To Me

Reblogging because this also happened to me😔

Hm. I wonder how many names this scammer is gonna go through before people catch on. Went from Doreen Munyendo to Caroline to Mary to Anne to Doreen Nanjala. Will the real scammer please stand up ?

Hi Tumblr, Happy Pride.

I hate doing it, but I’m going to rant so TLDR.

I identify as asexual. I’m comfortable and okay with this. It’s what’s true to me and I’m sticking with it.

I recently came out to my new boss and I was very relieved when she knew what I was talking about. Hell, surprised even. However, she pulled all the usual cards in questioning after that. I honestly am not upset with her, I love her so much because she’s been so great and wonderful, but I am upset with the questions that she asked. And deep down I think she was just curious. Her as a person and knowing her they were just innocent in nature. But they’re the same questions that every single person who comes out as ace gets asked and I hate that they seem to have gotten to even her.

“Did you have trauma?”

“Is it a germ thing?”

No. I’m just repulsed, thanks.

But I am I guess also a bit upset with her for seemingly trying to convince me otherwise?

“Well, there are other ways to feel good.”

“Hormones and biology take over after a while in the middle of that.”

And just. Yeah. I guess for some people. But not me. I don’t want to be a in a relationship where sex is the main thing. And I have told myself that if it’s too important for any potential partners of mine, then we would just have to split.

I am a hopeless romantic. I enjoy and adore seeing others madly, deeply, in love. I do. I crave that as well. I do like physical contact like hand holding, kissing, cuddling, hugging. But I don’t want to fuck you and I don’t want you fucking me.

I want to be able to share the same values, help carry each other through burdens, be there for one another and be treated equally. Teamwork is how the dream works. I want to be able to comfortably sit in silence with a partner and admire how a specific wallpaper’s vibe makes us feel and reflect on that, for example. Having the same interests and being supportive of each other would fantastic.

But I know being ace hinders all that a lot. And I have come to terms that if I die alone then it’s my fault. And I’ll live with that. It’s not my ideal way of going out but if it happens it does.

But I still hold hope for all you other aces. I cheer you on and hope you find a partner, if you desire, and you all live and love long happily.

You got this.

HEY!! MY SNEAKY SASQUATCH FIC HAS REACHED OVER 200 HITS!!🎉

I know that’s such minuscule numbers compared to today’s figures but it means so much that my silly little fanfic has been read over two hundred times!

Thank you all so so much for this! I hope to get more works out in the coming year!

buckaroos stay trotting

W O R M S ! ! ! !

Made some worms on strings(:

Update

(do people read these anymore?)

Anyway, Hey, Tumblr. You’re surprisingly still one of my favorite places.

Where do I even start? My job still takes up a bunch of my time. And I want to be creative.

Um. This is too early and way too late so I’m a bit tired, forgive me.

But any who. Yeah, my job that I thankfully have is still taking up my time but it’s allowing me to be where I am. I still have no WiFi and that’s really hard on my end to publish works that doesn’t involve my phone, mostly my writings.

But also I’ve been painting! If you follow my art account, I’ve been painting a butt ton of Squidward lol. And this is due to the holiday season is coming very soon and too fast. Essentially, I bit off way more than I can chew but what’s new? I’m bad at time management.

But anyway, I’m hoping by next year I’ll get some crap put together and be able to put more stuff out. Honestly, after I do these paintings lol. They’re time eaters just as well but worth it!

Thanks to all who read this and I hope you all have a great day.❤️

- Otto