On A Asking To Speak With Another Alter

On a asking to speak with another alter

It’s a question we get asked quite a lot. Is it rude to ask for another alter? Well, it really depends on the situation and how you ask

Things that are NOT okay to say:

“Oh, it’s you. Can’t someone else front for once?”

“I don’t like you, I wanna talk to [alter name]”

“Why is [alter name] never out?”

Think about it. What if someone you knew came up and looked annoyed that you were there simply because they wanted to speak to your friend instead? It kinda sucks

Things that ARE okay to say:

“Hey, I saw something [alter name] might like, could I show them real quick?”

“I haven’t seen [alter name] in awhile. Next time you see them, could you let them know I miss them and I’d love to talk to them next time they’re out?”

Finally, remember not everyone can switch on command. Sometimes alters want to front, but just can’t. It’s not that they don’t want to talk to you, they just aren’t able to front at that particular moment.

(Singlets and systems can both reblog this!)

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