Choosing To Submit

Choosing to submit

I'm thinking about this old post I've lost since. It was a picture of a woman, naked, on her knees, in a submissive waiting position. She had a ball in her mouth. Not a regular ball gag, but just the ball, without straps. She was absolutely free to open her mouth and drop the ball. She was free to wipe all the drool from her body. She was free to get up and go. And she was free to stay, to kneel, to keep that gag in her mouth and drool all other herself, just to please the special someone who asked her to. She chose to stay.

I'd choose that too...

PS: if you still have this post or picture, please share :)

Doms who wear a thigh cuff so they always have somewhere to lock their sub's collar.

🥵🥵🥵.

Breath play, but with your boobies squished on my face, so my needy little mind is too busy enjoying sucking on your nipples that I don't even notice that I'm not breathing.

Introduction

Disclaimer

This is an adult blog! 18+ only

You won't find any intolerance here (or please explain nicely, nobody's perfect :) ). No rascism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, sexism, fatphobia, classism... No kinkshaming, slutshaming. No religious nor anti-religious stuff.

Consent is everything.

Let me introduce myself:

I'm a man (he/him, could enjoy it from the right person), 35, single, cishet, living in Europe.

I've recently read that if you're not oversharing on Tumblr, you're using it wrong, (I'll have to find back that post and credit the author ;) ) so, after years of lurking and quietly liking posts, I'm here to overshare and pour my kinks out of my brain.

I'm a sub (never been in a d/s relationship, but I want it really bad, and for so so long; I might tell more about that in another post), a pussy eater (pussy-juice slut?) that'd let his mistress do anything that'd make her wet, hoping that she'll let me beg to lick her. I'd love to be bound and gag when not in use. I want to be pet and praised when I'm good, and spank and bitten when I'm bad (or just when Mistress wants to).

I also have a huge nylon fetish. Pantyhose, stockings, bodystockings, encasement, on me or Mistress will turn me on a lot and shut off my brain.

Important posts

My kinks

Whishlist

Some threesome thoughts

Some blowjob thoughts

Things I will write about (maybe, one day)

My kinks origin story

The acts that are seen has submisse or dominant (probably rebloging this good post from Miss Nyx, adding more arguments to her already good ones)

How I'd explain BDSM to people who are looking from outside

Some evolution of fashion

Pegging and sissyfication (tough one)

Some books/comics/movies/others linked to kinkiness (no porn)

Maintenance discipline

The Marshmallow test

Why stairs have a lot of kinky uses

Bad pets get punished.

Good pets get maintenance spankings.

Caged pet

I'd love to be a caged pet. In a proper kinky dog cage, not a chastity one. Those cages with rings everywhere to anchor cuffs and ropes, with stocks and a mattress on top, to play on it.

We'd play with a system of privileges. If I'm a really good pet, I'll win some more privilegies, but if I do anything bad, or disappoint my Dom·me in any way, I'd lose some.

Privileges can include:

Comfort privileges (Matress, pillow, clothes and blanket)

More or less freedom of movement inside the cage (from free inside the cage to completely bound, or the leash or some cuffs anchored to the rings)

Snacks/drinks privileges: having some within reach, when needed

Entertainement privileges: having access to a book, a phone, a laptop, video games

Orgasms/edges privileges: having the right to cum or edge x times a day in the cage

Open door privilege: the privilege for an absolutely perfect behaviour. I'd still have to spend most of my time in the cage, while I'm not in use, but I'd be able to move freely around the house, to get anything from the above privileges, or complete tasks and serve my Dom·me as requested