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I want to beg too

Not to get what I want. It doesn't matter much. I just want to give control. I'll beg, you decide.

You give in and allow whatever I beg for => that's a win!

You refuse, and show that you are in control, that you decide and you know best => that's another win!

I want to kneel.

I just want to strip down and kneel at someone's feet. I want them to accept me the way I am, and mindlessly pet my hair while going on with their activities.

Just being there for them, to serve and please. And to be seen for what I am.

A safeword is like a seatbelt

That's how I see it, anyway.

You don't put your seatbelt on because you're going to need it. You put it on in case you need it, hopping that you won't, but you put it anyway. And you put it when you get in the car, not right before you'll need it, that would be too late...

So put on your seatbelt, define a safeword, and use it when you need to. Stay safe!

Even though I'd love to be helpless for my Domme, I think women are more beautiful in everyway, and that works for shibari too.

To be able to enjoy pretty sub ladies bound artfully, I could train to be a skilled rope artist, either tying my Domme's ladysubs on her behalf, or get to be a comissioned rope artist:

For ladies who don't want to learn how to do shibari, who are not bothered, or who'd love to come home to their bound pet but need them to be free to do chores during the day.

I could get to their place, and tie their sub pretty for them. But I'd have to do it in a distant, submissive, professionnal manner. Not being allowed to touch the sub more than needed, no gropping, kissing, sucking or licking any sweet part of those helpless tied naked ladies.

Obviously, I'd be so hard, throbbing, leaking. My brain melting from being so close to those gorgeous ladies, physicaly free, yet too subby to do anything I'm not allowed, barely even looking at them more than I'd need to for my art.

I'd accept any tip in the form of a ladie's taste, being either the Domme or sub, but I'd never ask...

I'd love to be a shibari practice doll. Being perfectly still for my Dom·me, moving only to take the position they want or to hold a rope to help them.

They'd tell me that I'm such a good helpful toy, that I look so much better like this.

They'd take a break between each tableau, gagging me so they can call a friend or watch a tv show. They'd masturbate to the view of my really average body highlighted by the rope art, making me watch and listen, but unable to even beg to participate...

Of course, I'd get some rewards for being a good slut. All related to my oral fixation. Starting with just some spit in my mouth. "What? We're just getting started... I have a lot to practice today." The rewards getting better and better, allowing me to kiss, suck or lick different parts of their bodies, legs, nipples, mouth, tongue, fingers with the taste of their masturbation.

After many hours, they'd end up using my mouth to come, then put back the gag.

"Oh, you've been so good to me today. Such a good fucktoy. You've earn the right to come! Yeah, you can either touch yourself, or join me in bed..."

They'd let me there on the floor, in the dark, still unable to do anything, my brain long gone in a horny fog...

I'd love to be a shibari practice doll. Being perfectly still for my Dom·me, moving only to take the position they want or to hold a rope to help them.

They'd tell me that I'm such a good helpful toy, that I look so much better like this.

They'd take a break between each tableau, gagging me so they can call a friend or watch a tv show. They'd masturbate to the view of my really average body highlighted by the rope art, making me watch and listen, but unable to even beg to participate...

Of course, I'd get some rewards for being a good slut. All related to my oral fixation. Starting with just some spit in my mouth. "What? We're just getting started... I have a lot to practice today." The rewards getting better and better, allowing me to kiss, suck or lick different parts of their bodies, legs, nipples, mouth, tongue, fingers with the taste of their masturbation.

After many hours, they'd end up using my mouth to come, then put back the gag.

"Oh, you've been so good to me today. Such a good fucktoy. You've earn the right to come! Yeah, you can either touch yourself, or join me in bed..."

They'd let me there on the floor, in the dark, still unable to do anything, my brain long gone in a horny fog...

Hmrf, I could give head 25 hours a day and still beg for more...

Caged pet

I'd love to be a caged pet. In a proper kinky dog cage, not a chastity one. Those cages with rings everywhere to anchor cuffs and ropes, with stocks and a mattress on top, to play on it.

We'd play with a system of privileges. If I'm a really good pet, I'll win some more privilegies, but if I do anything bad, or disappoint my Dom·me in any way, I'd lose some.

Privileges can include:

Comfort privileges (Matress, pillow, clothes and blanket)

More or less freedom of movement inside the cage (from free inside the cage to completely bound, or the leash or some cuffs anchored to the rings)

Snacks/drinks privileges: having some within reach, when needed

Entertainement privileges: having access to a book, a phone, a laptop, video games

Orgasms/edges privileges: having the right to cum or edge x times a day in the cage

Open door privilege: the privilege for an absolutely perfect behaviour. I'd still have to spend most of my time in the cage, while I'm not in use, but I'd be able to move freely around the house, to get anything from the above privileges, or complete tasks and serve my Dom·me as requested

I need to give head so bad.

I'll say please and thank you.

Please please please please, let me know your taste.

Help me, I'm so needy. Please!

Bad pets get punished.

Good pets get maintenance spankings.

Wishlist

(In the unlikely event of someone wanting to "help" with the wishlist, that's really nice of you, but that's not the point ^^)

More nylon (is there ever enough?)

Fishnets (I'd like to try, ones with small "holes" (I don't have all the vocabulary :p ), especially layered with classic pantyhose)

Stocking and/or crotchless pantyhose, for easy access

Some bigger size, for encasement

Bodystocking

Pantyhose with sheath

Nylon cocoon

Cuffs (I found two nice sets from the same brand, one with collar, chain, wrist and ankle cuffs, and one with wrist and thigh cuffs. I'll use the second pair of wrist cuffs for the elbows)

Gag (a ball one, and maybe a ring one. Does a ring prevent to speak as well as a ball? Is it more/less drooly? And/or maybe a Jennings gag)

Nipple clamps (with a little chain between them)

A chastity cage? (on the fence, but the idea is starting to grow on me. Because, you know, I didn't have enough kinks already...) (should I get some vibrating device, to use on my caged sex?)

A mask/hood

Some rope?

A nice big cage or a bed with a cage below, or any of those really nice furnitures we can see in some kinky posts. A sub can dream, ok?!

So, while I was writing this, I started daydreaming about being abducted and kept in an underground high tech facility, behind a glass wall, to be studied like a lab rat, by a team of really hot scientists.

There'd be periods where I'd give a lot of head, so they can study how good it is for my brain and body, and periods where I'm not allowed to give head, so they can study how dumb and needy I get. How masturbating doesn't help my needs, or getting head. I'd start rubbing my tongue with my fingers to try to fulfill that need.

And I'd be exposed to pictures or videos of crotches or head giving. The scientist would flash me too, so I couldn't focus and think about anything else...

There must be something medical about how bad I need to give head. It can't be only because I'm a needy little fucktoy with a HUGE oral fixation. (I am, I'm not going to say otherwise, but it can't explain my need to give head).

My body and brain can't work if I don't give head. Normal people need to eat and breath, I need to give head...

There must be something medical about how bad I need to give head. It can't be only because I'm a needy little fucktoy with a HUGE oral fixation. (I am, I'm not going to say otherwise, but it can't explain my need to give head).

My body and brain can't work if I don't give head. Normal people need to eat and breath, I need to give head...

It would be so hot to be put in a cage then sold to a dom. Put in the trunk of their car to be moved to their place. They'd tame me, shape and mold me into their perfect fucktoy. I'd be theirs. Taken out of my cage only to use my body then put back in.

I'd love to be an office fucktoy.

I could only wear nylon, cuffs, a collar and a leash (maybe a gag and nipple clamps), and do a boring office job, then someone could just call me, whistle, snap their fingers, ring a bell or whatever, and I'll just crawl under their desk and give them head until they're satisfied and dismiss me with a wave of their hand or a push from their foot. (They can say that I'm a good pet/slut/fucktoy, if I was) I'll just crawl back to my desk until someone else calls me again. I don't even need a proper desk, just a small table for which I'd need to kneel.

Second option: I could just be locked in a "kinky barstool" with a hood and a gag, in a break room. Any worker would be able to come, ungag me, enjoy my face, then gag me and leave. I could try to guess who it was just by their taste and sounds, and get a little reward if I guessed correctly.

In both case, I could be touched, groped, and have titties or fingers shoved in my mouth. And I'll act so needy and beg to be used.

I think I'd be a great "chief happiness manager". Please hire me. Pretty please. 🥺🥺🥺

Being allow to beg to give head to my dom is the best reward.

Breath play, but with your boobies squished on my face, so my needy little mind is too busy enjoying sucking on your nipples that I don't even notice that I'm not breathing.

A dom telling me that I'm only allowed to wear nylon and cuffs today, and that I can only speak to beg them to f*ck my tongue.

Oooh, I wouldn't shut up...

🥵🥵🥵.

Doms who wear a thigh cuff so they always have somewhere to lock their sub's collar.

🥵🥵🥵.

No matter how much I try, touching myself doesn't do anything for my craving to give head...

Dominant blowjobs

Since I wrote that pinned post and the "unsure about blowjobs part", I've gave it some thinking.

As a sub, I'd go down on my Mistress in a really needy way, trying to get as much of her juice as I can, but having her pleasure as a main goal, thinking that the more she enjoys my tongue, the more likely she is to allow be to taste her again.

But when she'd go down on me, it would be a whole other story. I'd be tied so tight that I'm absolutely unable to move. Gagged, she'd be able to sit on my face rubbing herself on my nose, making me dizzy from her sent and eager to lick her. I could be blindfolded and even have some noise cancelling headphone, so my world would be limited to her sent and touch. Then she could start sucking, exactly the way she wants, ignoring my muffling and wiggling. Obviously, I'd end up coming. But that wouldn't mean we're done. We'd be done only when she says so. She'd keep sucking other and other, giving me more orgasms than I can handle.

When she'd be done, she'd punish me for all of the unallowed orgasms I had...

Choosing to submit

I'm thinking about this old post I've lost since. It was a picture of a woman, naked, on her knees, in a submissive waiting position. She had a ball in her mouth. Not a regular ball gag, but just the ball, without straps. She was absolutely free to open her mouth and drop the ball. She was free to wipe all the drool from her body. She was free to get up and go. And she was free to stay, to kneel, to keep that gag in her mouth and drool all other herself, just to please the special someone who asked her to. She chose to stay.

I'd choose that too...

PS: if you still have this post or picture, please share :)

I'd love to give tummy and back kisses right now.

My kinks

Here's a list of my kinks. It's an always moving list, as this things come (but rarely go).

I've never done most of the subby stuff, especially with a partner, but I crave for it.

Pussy licking

Nylon (pantyhose, stockings, bodystocking, encasement, cocoon... on myself and/or my mistress)

Being tied up

Pussy eating

Gags (just hoping that Mistress won't rub herself on my gagged face, that would be torture)

Collar and leash

Being caged (in a pet cage, not a chastity cage)

Cuddling and kissing (that can get me really hard)

Being awaken by Mistress' pussy on my mouth (anytime)

Sitting on the floor, either in a subby position or not, back to the couch, having my Mistress legs around my neck, over my shoulders

Being bitten

Being allowed to kiss my Mistress' body head to toe, (almost) everywhere, for hours and hours

Being spanked

Being blindfolded

Being praised, being rewarded for being a good sub (I like @puppysowner 's point system. Getting points for some actions, and being able to trade them for new toys: cuffs, nylon, gags...)

Being allowed to beg to get to lick pussy, that's the best way to reward me

Threesome with two women (in a really subby way, I'll write another post about some scenarios)

Tits in my mouth. Like yes, please, pretty please!

Being put on display

Nipple clamps

Shibari

Light choking, hands around my neck

Being spat on/in my mouth

Ice/wax play

Having my tongue sucked, my lips bitten

Turn offs

Pee, poo, blood

Cum eating (me. Mistress can if she enjoys that)

Anything with the butthole

Pegging

Sissyfication

Calling Mistress "Mommy". I just can't.

Being cuckhold

Unsure about it

Chastity cage

Long time denial (I'm not even sure it's possible. I tried to stop touching myself at some point, I came in my sleep after like a week...)

Having my cock sucked. (I have a weird thing about it. I might talk about that later. I really enjoyed that in a vanilla relationship with a woman who loves doing it. I'm not sure how it works on a subby man, except if I'm a really really good boy, or as a teasing when denied...)

Tape gag. I mean, I have a beard, so I wonder if it would be either useless, or hurting as f*ck when removing it (or both), and making my beard looks like shit...

Breath play, It sounds hot, but scary at the same time.

Introduction

Disclaimer

This is an adult blog! 18+ only

You won't find any intolerance here (or please explain nicely, nobody's perfect :) ). No rascism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, sexism, fatphobia, classism... No kinkshaming, slutshaming. No religious nor anti-religious stuff.

Consent is everything.

Let me introduce myself:

I'm a man (he/him, could enjoy it from the right person), 35, single, cishet, living in Europe.

I've recently read that if you're not oversharing on Tumblr, you're using it wrong, (I'll have to find back that post and credit the author ;) ) so, after years of lurking and quietly liking posts, I'm here to overshare and pour my kinks out of my brain.

I'm a sub (never been in a d/s relationship, but I want it really bad, and for so so long; I might tell more about that in another post), a pussy eater (pussy-juice slut?) that'd let his mistress do anything that'd make her wet, hoping that she'll let me beg to lick her. I'd love to be bound and gag when not in use. I want to be pet and praised when I'm good, and spank and bitten when I'm bad (or just when Mistress wants to).

I also have a huge nylon fetish. Pantyhose, stockings, bodystockings, encasement, on me or Mistress will turn me on a lot and shut off my brain.

Important posts

My kinks

Whishlist

Some threesome thoughts

Some blowjob thoughts

Things I will write about (maybe, one day)

My kinks origin story

The acts that are seen has submisse or dominant (probably rebloging this good post from Miss Nyx, adding more arguments to her already good ones)

How I'd explain BDSM to people who are looking from outside

Some evolution of fashion

Pegging and sissyfication (tough one)

Some books/comics/movies/others linked to kinkiness (no porn)

Maintenance discipline

The Marshmallow test

Why stairs have a lot of kinky uses