The Difference Between The First Two Ai Imagines Of Tae

The difference between the first two ai imagines of Tae 😭

“oh well it’s constructive criticism’”

Let’s talk about the phrase “oh well it’s constructive criticism” and how people use that phrase to excuse themselves when they get called out for leaving criticism on fan-works. Especially in cases when criticism of any kind is not welcome, not warranted, and not asked for.

The thing is, unless criticism is asked for, it is not constructive no matter what the original intent is. To my mind and the mind of many other creatives/artist/writers there are only a few scenarios where constructive criticism is a legitimate response to something. Number one is obviously if you have been asked for it, the creative in question has given you explicit permission to critique their work. ex: “what are you honest takes/opinions on this thing?” then it is okay to give constructive criticism as it has been explicitly requested from the creative. Number two is in an educational setting. Like literary reviews of your classmates papers, teacher feedback after an assignment, the reviews you give at the end of a semester for your teacher’s class management. Otherwise, outside of these types of things, criticism for the sake of wanting to critique is rude. It is not constructive, because it’s not asked for. 

I have had several comments over the years with the theme of “well since i read it i get to have an opinion of it, i get to share my honest take” and to that i say, no you don’t actually. Because my work is fanfiction, that you have not paid for,  you are reading for free, that was not written with you in mind, that you could have stopped reading at any point, you don’t have the right to give your unwanted ‘constructive criticism’ to me the author. That is not me being sensitive, it not me being unfair or rude, it is just the fact. I am not making anyone read my fics, if you do not like the work, then do not read it- it is okay to stop reading a fic because you cant handle the writing style, or if there are lot of errors, or whatever. Just stop reading it. I can promise you, no author wants to see “well i liked this but the the wording you used it technically incorrect” cool, calling out what you think is a technical error when you have no bases for where an author is from and you are not their beta reader or editor, is something that is rooted in classism.  It does not make you superior to correct people for the words they use. Language is not linear. 

Saying “oh well it’s ‘constructive criticism’ ” makes you look like an asshat. If someone is calling you out for leaving criticism then it likely wasn’t asked for and thus it is not constructive.

For something to be constructive it must first have been consented to. It must be given in a way that is not mean or spiteful, or filled harmful intent, delivered kindly and with care. Constructive criticism when not consented to is never going to be considered constructive no matter how nicely it’s phrased. Just because something is accessible to you, just because it is available online, does not mean that it is consenting to critique.  

Ask before commenting with criticism. Assuming someone is open to it just makes you look silly. So just ask first, if you really feel the need to have to critique. If they say no, respect that decision. 

M for Maniac | MasterPost

Pairing: Min Yoongi x Female Character

Genre/Tags: Dark Romance, Thriller

Status: Coming Soon

Rating: Explicit

Warnings: Implied sexual content, graphical depiction of violence, gore, mental instability, major character death, LGBT characters, angst.

Synopsis: In 21st Century Seoul, danger equaled things starting with the letter 'M':

Man,

Menace,

Malevolent,

And Min Yoongi.

'Crisis' was a given under his regime as a ferocious Mafia. But who was to stop him with a sound mind? Might be the people working at NIS.

However, the only two ways to reach him were either by dying at gunpoint beneath him or being tied down underneath him and grinding his favorite gun.

Kwon Iseul, a special agent assigned by NIS, made the worst decision of her life by pledging to arrest and unveil his true identity to the world, thinking she could beguile him with her coquettish beauty.

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"Who do you think you were fooling, Iseul? Me or yourself?"

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Spin off to Your Devil: A Doomed Catastrophe

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It would be so much fun to watch them debate on this in one of the Run BTS episodes. I miss watching Run BTS 😭💜

taehyung: chapter 2 isn't about being shirtless

jungkook: bet

Remember You: My Happiness | MasterPost

Pairing: Taehyung x Female Character

Genre/Tags: Classic, Romance, Fluff

Word Count: 11.6k+

Status: Ongoing

Rating: Teen and Up Audience

Synopsis: With the ocean breeze silencing us, we remain unperturbed, strangely. She and I static against the moving waves in front, staring at the moon, the same inconstant moon she referenced from a while ago. But that was until something about gazing at the twilit sky stirred a familiar sentiment and prompted the cynicism I came to be for nine long years.

"I don't understand how people can easily forget the person they claimed to love once."

From afar, tintinnabulations of church bells chimed, providing for the delicacy that her next words carried, therefore contradicting my belief of offending her, as she said, "Whoever said about forgetting when one can remember them even if they choose to move on, Tae?"

The comfort of her smile wrapped around me like orchids blooming in early spring, tying me to the night for the next two months of summer. I inhaled sharply.

OR

Kim Taehyung, a 22-year-old intern at Seoul Art Gallery, experiences a waver in his opinions toward life and love after differing them with the perceptions of a specific woman he met in France.

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You know there was once a time when we used to loose half of our brain cells over mistakes like this :)