Hi... I Have A Vagina. And This Has Been Getting At Me As Ive Started To Get Sexually Active With My

hi... i have a vagina. and this has been getting at me as ive started to get sexually active with my boyfriend, im not sure if its normal or if were doing something wrong. Ive never fingered myself or anything so being on the receiving end with him is my first experience with this. Im finding fingering and oral to be rather painful, even before any things even inside me. is it normal? is there a way to go about it that isnt painful?

Hi! Okay, so unless you know you have a condition that causes vulvar/vaginal pain, oral and fingering should not hurt unless you want it to. It could be that you're being too rough or not using enough lube but if you're being careful and using plenty of lube and still experiencing pain, that means something else is going on.

It could be something simple, like a yeast infection or it could be something more complicated like vulvodynia but either way, it's definitely something you want to be seeing a doctor [preferably a OBG/YN] about. It's not "normal", it's your body telling you something is going on that needs attention.

Hope this helps! Lemme know, especially if you have anymore questions! <33

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