The Sexuality Isnt Actually Who You ARE Its About What You DO And How You Interact With Other People.
The “sexuality isn’t actually who you ARE it’s about what you DO and how you interact with other people. I am very smart” takes are annoying to me because. Even if I never touched another man in my entire life, if I never spoke to another man or even looked at one, I would still be a gay man. If I woke up tomorrow and every other man on earth had vanished I would still be a gay man… because I am a man who is only attracted to men.
Even if I tried to act as straight as possible and tried to interact with women the way a straight man would… nothing would change. Are you saying that closeted, “straight-acting” gay men are not actually gay? Do you realize that trying to come off as an average heterosexual to the world for a part of life (usually through childhood and adolescence, but in many cases for much longer) is a survival tactic for a huge percentage of queer people? Please be fucking for real
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