Will There Ever Be More Birds Of A Feather?

will there ever be more birds of a feather?

Hey anon thanks for going out of your way to find me here and ask 😊

The short answer is yes. It's not abandoned. It's just a case of when. Got a few things going against me at the moment but I still have plans to continue it.

//really sorry for all the unanswered messaged and asks. I'm still here but my battery is super low. Not ignoring anyone on purpose. Will hopefully engage more soon

Yes it's race week in Britain this week but it's also ELECTION WEEK!! Please remember to vote on 4th July! You will need a valid form of Photo ID and polling stations will be open between 7am and 10pm.

Stop letting people consume you. they didn’t call? go to sleep. they didn’t message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn’t make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone

The thing about ADHD is that the "lack of reward chemicals in your brain" doesn't just mean that you don't want to do any tasks that don't feel particularly yummy :(, it means that your brain will look at chores and tasks that need to be done like "doing this would be painful and tedious for absolutely nothing to gain from it, Do Not Do That." The same thing that your brain tells you about everything else that would feel really bad and hurt the entire time that you're dying. The part of your brain that stops you from doing the thing is the same part that keeps you from shoving your arm into a wood chipper.

With unmedicated, unmanaged ADHD, "I have to do this assignment or I fail and my life will be ruined and I die" feels like a SAW trap, every single time.