Yeeeaaah Deflecting Your Actions With But I Dont Remember Doing That Or That Wasnt Me It Was ___ Does

Yeeeaaah deflecting your actions with “but I don’t remember doing that” or “that wasn’t me it was ___” does not equal an apology or an effort to address the problem.

Had this shit done to us by other local systems years ago, and they still haven’t grown up to this day. They’re all plenty self aware. At some people system accountability HAS to happen or you’re going to be stuck in the same shit your whole life.

System responsibility is a huge thing that comes along with having DID/OSDD.

You don’t get to shrug off blame by saying “that wasn’t me, an alter did it.” The body is all of yours and you and your entire system have to take responsibility for it.

Think of it like this:

- you go to a store and shoplift

-you get caught

-you get arrested

-you get put on trial

-you can’t use the defense of “another alter did it” because you all inhabit the same body

-you pay a fine/serve jail time

The truth of the matter is that all of your alters inhabit the SAME BODY.

So anything they do is going to be looked upon as you as a whole.

It does not excuse your words or actions.

Taking system responsibility means accepting what happened, apologizing for it, and working through a solution with your alters to prevent it from happening again.

I’m tired of systems using excuses and not owning up for what their system members do when it hurts others.

wishing gender euphoria on all trans people, wishing for all trans people to feel at home in their bodies, to be absolutely and entirely in love with and at peace in their bodies

We severely dislike the term “parts” and actively avoid people that use it. “System member” feels much better and doesn’t make us nearly as uncomfortable.

Head mate would be nice if the endos hadn’t have made it impossible to love that term anymore.

[Text: This system uses the term “member” to describe people in their system]

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Whenever someone says - as praise OR as homophobic criticism - that Noelle Stevenson “made” She-Ra into an LGBT brand I think they should know that the lead character designer of the original was a lesbian who also said that the entire studio behind He-Man and She-Ra was “the gayest place in town.” And like, honestly, you look me in the eye and tell me a straight person drew a single one of these character’s outfits.

A SINGLE one.

Really wish we could go back to a time when movies were worth something as long as they were fun to watch

Like I mentioned the 2016 Ghostbusters reboot (the all-female one) to someone bc i had a lot of fun watching that movie!! And they were like “that movie wasn’t that good it was just a comedy… It didn’t win anything did it?” like bitch …. The first Ghostbusters movie wasn’t fucking good either but I’m still sitting here watching some dudes chase a ghost through a library to some weird synth music so maybe movies don’t have to win awards to be worth watching

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