Am I... The Only Person Who Gets The Urge To Redo Everything All The Time

am i... the only person who gets the urge to redo everything all the time

like me: makes a spotify playlist and fills it with a ton of songs me a day later: i want to delete this whole playlist and redo it

yes this is me saying i want to redo this blog. will i? probably not ive put too much effort into this to do so. but im so close dude.

this post was NOT in my lil comforting agere persona, sorry *insert pensive emoji*

˗ˏˋ🍴´ˎ˗ Toy food stimboard! Requested by anon

☆ ★ ☆ // ★ ☆ ★ // ☆ ★ ☆

minecraft plush stimboard ^___^

[ 🐈 🐇 🐑 / 🐈 🐇 🐑 / 🐈 🐇 🐑 ]

things red panda regressors might like !!

fresh fruits

mirrors

being lazy

building blocks

cozy clothes

warm drinks

playtime

anything crunchy

playgrounds (especially the teeter-totters!)

naptime

Autistic Littles!

Hello there! This post is for caregivers who care for littles who are autistic. Here's some ways to help with meltdowns or times when autism is being meaner than usual! (All from my personal experience as someone with autism! Not everyone is the same!)

First, let's start with some of the possible warning signs of a meltdown! 1. Sensory Issues worse than usual -> Textures may be described as "wrong" or "bad" -> Things may be perceived as louder than they actually are -> Things may be perceived as brighter than they actually are -> Room feels like it's closing in around you 2. May become more irritable -> May be more prone to snapping or having an attitude -> Could possibly be described as more "stubborn" 3. Trouble communicating -> Being non-verbal for a prolonged amount of time -> Trouble expressing feelings or emotions -> Could also speak faster than usual or slower than usual -> Saying things like "I don't know what's wrong" or "I can't figure out what's happening" 4. Difficulty taking care of self -> Forgetting to eat/not wanting to -> Not sleeping as they normally would -> Not having the motivation or energy to do basic tasks 5. Isolation -> This is a big warning sign! -> Not wanting to go out/leave the house/leave their room -> Struggling when they do leave their space 6. Increase in stimming (whether super noticeable stims, or more passive ones) -> Hand flapping, rocking, mouth popping, hair fidgeting, fidgeting with hands, etc These are some of the possible warning signs, but everyone is different. Now, here's some ways you can help a little experiencing this.

~Be patient and understanding. Autism can be scary outside of littlespace, but it can be scarier when little. Try not to get angry or frustrated. ~Avoid yelling or any other loud noises ~Don't force them to talk or communicate. Sometimes it's better to just have someone there ~Listen if they do try and communicate their needs. ~Going along with the one above, but don't feel hurt or like you did something wrong if they ask to be left alone or tell you they need space. Sometimes having someone around is too much and they might just need to process their emotions on their own. ~Communicate on ways to help once the meltdown seems to subside ~Remember that everyone is different. What you've seen work for someone might not work for someone else. It varies (which is why communication is good) ~Try to give suggestions if sensory issues is something that's a main struggle ("Try changing into comfy clothes" "Try a different blanket" "Turn off the TV?" "Turn off the lights?") Just trying to figure out what helps and what doesn't ~Offer a distraction if that's what they need (Ask about hyperfixations, even if you already know the answers to the questions. One of the good ones for me that always seems to come up is dinosaurs <3)

Remember: It's okay if something you do doesn't help. That's how you learn and you know not to do that thing next time. It's okay <3 You're doing great

i have now realised that ive been taking agere moodboard prompts too seriously.

i just made a moodboard based on "a character you headcanon as a regressor" and i just... made a moodboard of only that character.

no pacifier, no "aesthetic" pictures not anything else besides the character.

so uh.

new moodboard coming out soon? just maybe not... that one.

also maybe ill just use the standard 3x3 box for it. probably makes it easier on me.