[ID: Picture Of Someone Saying No To The Text "Actual Child Pornography Labeled As 'Loli' Or 'Lolita'

[ID: Picture of someone saying no to the text "Actual child pornography labeled as 'Loli' or 'Lolita' in order to write it off as not fucking child porn". Then saying yeah to a cute, lolita fashion dress. End ID]

lolita fashion (NOT to be confused with loli/lolita cp) is so cute I just wish it were named something else

If someone looks uncomfortable when you hug them, please stop hugging them.

If someone shuffles away when you stand beside them, don’t move closer to them again.

If someone shrugs your hand off their shoulder, don’t fucking put your hand back on.

Don’t be an asshole. If someone says they don’t like to be touched, I don’t care how much it “offends” you. Stop touching them.

Stop.

I literally just rewatched like half of the first neji vs hinata chunin exam fight episode just so I could confirm a detail and instead I made myself angry again

Shitty website: How to make your cruch fall in love with you.

Me, who's in love with a fictional character: Interesting!

some of you people NEED to be fucking reminded that loving minorities will always be more important than hating bigots

a lot of children - especially mentally ill children - end up traumatized not because someone was specifically hurting them but because their needs weren’t being met, or because their problems weren’t being seen, or because they were rendered particularly vulnerable by other aspects of their identity, like queerness or race. 

and it can be hard to look at your childhood and go “I was hurt” and also know that the hurt wasn’t deliberate. it’s uniquely painful to not have someone to blame. 

you do not have to excuse the people who hurt you, even if it was unintentional. & acknowledging your own pain does not necessarily entail blaming them for it.

you are allowed to do what you need to do in order to recover.