It's Beautiful To Be Alone.

It's beautiful to be alone.

To be alone does not mean to be lonely.

It means the mind is not influenced and contaminated by society."

— J Krishnamurti

........ WOW!

Some people you will meet are all marketing... no substance--borrowed images and stolen words. Stylish choices... without original thought. Be discerning, selective, and disciplined. Passionate women drip with pure intensity in every aspect of life--their humor, their playfulness, their words, their tears, their work, their love, their struggles--not just their delicious sensuality. You cannot cherry pick her ardor. Show up for all of her with intention. Her energy, her submissive heart, her erotic mind, her sacred soul are gifts... not a given.

- Viv

Sometimes I really think people don't consider the power of just telling someone you like them. Romantically obviously, but even platonically too. Admitting you enjoy having people in your life doesn’t need to be a mind game. When you are sincere and true with your thoughts and intentions you attract the types of people who WANT to be close to you.

Great advice and something I will be doing before the end of the year.

these are the habits you have to give up before the year is out:

worrying about people and things you can’t control

negative conversations with others

obsessing about what others think

lying for others

expect others to do what you want them to do and get angry if they don't do it

creating expectations on others

gossiping

making excuses for not taking care of your responsibilities

lying to yourself

putting your needs lasts

giving priority to other people's opinions rather than your own

letting the negative opinions of others affect you

limiting yourself

comparing themselves to others and putting them on a pedestal

giving prominence to people who do not deserve it

set boundaries with others but not with yourself

spending too much time on social media

habits you need to implement:

create a daily routine that you feel comfortable with and suits you

calming your mind a few times a day

positive affirmations and healthy thoughts

complimenting others and congratulating their success

letting go of things you can’t control

ending toxic relationships

more time outside

making yourself and your health a priority

self compassion and self forgiveness

taking responsibilities

more self care

beginning with a motivation each day

do what you need for yourself

starting something new (activity, hobby, habit)

not to depend on others and to learn to do things you want to do on your own

focus on the good things and not on the things you don't like

exercise and eat healthy for the sake of your body and not to fit into a beauty canon

getting out of your comfort zone

focus on building healthy relationships rather than being guided by false expectations of how relationships should be

be true to yourself and your values

not to sell or denigrate you for money or lavish gifts

There is something so liberating about opening your mind and body to sexual exploration.