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Very true. Emotional intelligence and mindfulness are the ability to respond, not react to something. And even not responding is a response.

Anyone who questions this has never had a stranger reach out to hold them up when they are down.

It's beautiful to be alone.

To be alone does not mean to be lonely.

It means the mind is not influenced and contaminated by society."

— J Krishnamurti

Sometimes I really think people don't consider the power of just telling someone you like them. Romantically obviously, but even platonically too. Admitting you enjoy having people in your life doesn’t need to be a mind game. When you are sincere and true with your thoughts and intentions you attract the types of people who WANT to be close to you.

My girlfriend and I recently had one if these moments and it was so much fun. We regularly find ourselves giggling like a couple of teenage girls. Especially when we are cuddling, naked in bed.

dying of laughter together is my favorite non sexual act of intimacy

Something so magnificently beautiful and feminine about a woman in a backless dress. It's the sultry confidence in their stride, just knowing everyone is watching them.

Such a beautiful expression of what makes women truly beautiful. Thank you. 💕

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You are a divine work of art. So many of us doubt it, but you are. Attractiveness is a complete package... not a body type, a hair color, or an age range. It is your uniqueness, your thoughts, the love in your heart, the curiosity of your mind, the effort you give to all the little things you manage every day, the gleam in your eyes, your smile, your laugh, the way you speak, the sound of your voice, the words you choose, your cadence; the way you carry yourself, the way you lose yourself in the music when you dance, the things you notice, the things you remember, the way others feel in your company, the way you treat strangers, the people who show up for you, animals, and children; the energy you exude, your essence, what you fight for, what you choose to let go of, and the way you give yourself away.... You do not need to feed the billion-dollar parasitic health and beauty industries that tell you what you need to be beautiful. No, you do not need those damaging and obviously-fake eyelashes and nail-tips, those pricey highlights, injections, perfectly drawn eyeliner, designer clothes, implants, and you do not need to wear that corset... although I agree it's lovely... you need to know that you do need it.

- Viv

"I had a feeling that Pandora’s box contained the mysteries of woman’s sensuality, so different from a man’s and for which man’s language was so inadequate. The language of sex had yet to be invented. The language of the senses was yet to be explored."

— Anaïs Nin, Delta of Venus

Empowering and enlightening.

"Erotic Existence … [O]nce we begin to feel deeply all the aspects of our lives, we begin to demand from ourselves and from our life-pursuits that they feel in accordance with that joy which we know ourselves to be capable of. Our erotic knowledge empowers us, becomes a lens through which we scrutinize all aspects of our existence, forcing us to evaluate those aspects honestly in terms of their relative meaning within our lives. The erotic is a resource within each of us that lies in a deeply female and spiritual plane, firmly rooted in the power of our unexpressed or unrecognized feeling. Of course, women so empowered are dangerous. So we are taught to separate the erotic from most vital areas of our lives other than sex."

— Audre Lorde

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"The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized sensation. For this reason, we have often turned away from the exploration and consideration of the erotic as a source of power and information, confusing it with its opposite, the pornographic. But pornography is a direct denial of the power of the erotic, for it represents the suppression of true feeling. Pornography emphasizes sensation without feeling. The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. It is an internal sense of satisfaction to which, once we have experienced it, we know we can aspire."

-Audre Lorde, Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power

Gawd yes! My submissive side craves this!

“But I’ve always found that being the center of attention is an implicitly erotic state.”

-Chelsea G. Summers, A Certain Hunger

TOO FUNNY!! 😂😂💖

one time i was in an olive garden bathroom and my packer fell out of my shorts and this ten year old boy just looked at me with absolute terror and without thinking i said "that's what happens when you don't eat your vegetables" later i saw him eating salad at a speed no human should be capable of

It is thigh Thursday right?

It’s time to get clear about what you want. It’s time to get clear about what you need. It’s time to get clear about what you value. It’s time to get clear about what you deserve.

I do I do!!

seems like no one wants a 5”8 fem domme these days 🙄

i guess i’ll just jump off a cliff then

........ WOW!

Some people you will meet are all marketing... no substance--borrowed images and stolen words. Stylish choices... without original thought. Be discerning, selective, and disciplined. Passionate women drip with pure intensity in every aspect of life--their humor, their playfulness, their words, their tears, their work, their love, their struggles--not just their delicious sensuality. You cannot cherry pick her ardor. Show up for all of her with intention. Her energy, her submissive heart, her erotic mind, her sacred soul are gifts... not a given.

- Viv

This is so beautiful and so true. I wish every lesbian could find this and experience the feeling.

I hope your girlfriend read this and knows how special she is, and how special you are. 💕💕👩‍❤️‍👩

I was simply going to post this, but then I thought, there's more to it than that.

I don't so much love being lesbian as I love my lesbian relationship. I love my girlfriend, I love being in love with her, I love the way she snuggles, the way she feels, the way we mesh, the way we are compatible. I love the way she loves me.

Yes, there are certain aspects to the relationship that I love that are unique to being lesbian-- it is 100% true that lesbian sex is better. I think she fits me and fills my personal needs better partly because she is a beautiful woman (inside).

But what I really love is my girlfriend.

Try not to laugh....

Great advice and something I will be doing before the end of the year.

these are the habits you have to give up before the year is out:

worrying about people and things you can’t control

negative conversations with others

obsessing about what others think

lying for others

expect others to do what you want them to do and get angry if they don't do it

creating expectations on others

gossiping

making excuses for not taking care of your responsibilities

lying to yourself

putting your needs lasts

giving priority to other people's opinions rather than your own

letting the negative opinions of others affect you

limiting yourself

comparing themselves to others and putting them on a pedestal

giving prominence to people who do not deserve it

set boundaries with others but not with yourself

spending too much time on social media

habits you need to implement:

create a daily routine that you feel comfortable with and suits you

calming your mind a few times a day

positive affirmations and healthy thoughts

complimenting others and congratulating their success

letting go of things you can’t control

ending toxic relationships

more time outside

making yourself and your health a priority

self compassion and self forgiveness

taking responsibilities

more self care

beginning with a motivation each day

do what you need for yourself

starting something new (activity, hobby, habit)

not to depend on others and to learn to do things you want to do on your own

focus on the good things and not on the things you don't like

exercise and eat healthy for the sake of your body and not to fit into a beauty canon

getting out of your comfort zone

focus on building healthy relationships rather than being guided by false expectations of how relationships should be

be true to yourself and your values

not to sell or denigrate you for money or lavish gifts

There is something so liberating about opening your mind and body to sexual exploration.

Feeling a little down with some body issues today, so I thought I'd take a chance at a sef esteem boost. It's not much, but it's Tiddy Tuesday.