They/he~20~Blk

They/he~20~Blk <3 My name’s Dewy/Dew!!꒰ა ♡ ໒꒱

Request: open/closed (only accepting 3 at the moment)

Status: online/offline

Currently Reading: The red Rising, re-reading Black Butler <3

Currently watching: welcome to demon school! Iruma-Kun, Chainsaw Man, Tokyo Mew Mew, Rick n morty

Current Rules n Regulations (look at this before requesting

Currently: thinking about beel<3 my beloved🥰

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@worshipmevenus ~dom!reader

Hanma’s official wifey🥰

Thank you all for patience and following me from my old blog, I have received your requests and will be working on them immediately! I have updated my tags for NFSW as well so please be on look out for that. I hope we can continue to take care of each other from here on out

omg I love your theme 😖❤️

Thank you bby! I love yours

Happy Birthday, Eren Yeager! [03.30]

hey people living in the USA: if your doctor wants you to give a urine or blood sample for any reason, especially before you recieve a procedure or surgery, refuse to allow them to perform a pregnancy test. say that there's no possible way you could be pregnant and insist on being given a waiver to sign instead. if you are found to be pregnant by a medical professional it will end up in your medical record and could expose you to risk of being prosecuted for terminating your pregnancy.

the 17 year old recently charged in nebraska for a self induced abortion is being prosecuted for performing one after the 20 week time limit permitted by nebraska state law because police were able to access her medical records to prove that she was pregnant and how many weeks along she was

obviously don't talk on social media about your unwanted pregnancy or plans to get rid of it but you cannot let doctors in restricted states know either

alright im just gonna say it, because im tired and my brain filter has already gone to sleep for the night

i used to read smut as a minor, you used to read smut as a minor, your fav authors used to read smut as minors, and minors still read smut today. there is no way we can prevent or change this.

but you know what i DIDN'T do when reading smut as a minor? interact with it or the authors. i kept to myself, got my fill, and then stayed away. it really wasn't hard.

whether or not minors should read smut at all is debatable. on the one hand, it can be a fun and safe way to explore your sexuality through fantasy, rather than going out there and catching STIs and getting pregnant. on the other, the smut fanfic corner of the internet is vast and largely unmoderated; it is likely you will stumble upon topics/kinks/stories that can be traumatic or harmful to some individuals. reading about fictional sex and intimacy may also create unrealistic expectations about real-life sex and intimacy.

but regardless of the moral/ethical intricacies of minors reading smut, the fact remains that teens are very often horny, and once a horny teen sets their mind to reading smutty fic about their favorite characters, there's nothing we can do to stop them.

then, what can we do? well, a few things:

- we can maintain our boundaries and continue to block minors and ageless blogs that follow us

- we can continue to impress upon minors who stumble upon our blogs the importance of respecting those boundaries

- we can continue to tag our smutty fanfic thoroughly and appropriately, so people can avoid things that they know will be harmful for them to read

- we can continue having discussions about fantasy vs reality, and what is and is not healthy in a real-life sexual or intimate scenario/relationship

in my opinion, shaming minors for reading smut altogether only does more harm than good - the more a kid is shamed for their sexuality, the more they try to hide it and the more likely they are to engage in risky sex. that doesn't mean we shouldn't shame them for not respecting a DNI boundary.

i don't have a witty, cutting conclusion to this rant, so i'll conclude by saying that i think the only way to protect everyone best is to be realistic, firm, and kind in the manner in which we address this issue. shaming kids for being horny isn't gonna get us anywhere at all.