Even If It's A Ship I Don't Care For Or Even Hate, I Still Would Like To See It On My Dashboard. Because,

Even if it's a ship I don't care for or even hate, I still would like to see it on my dashboard. Because, if the person who is shipping it is a kind person who engages with my posts, the ship becomes a reminder of someone nice and eventually I either end up liking it or losing my hate for it. Anyone else?

Minors DNI

Not All Coping Mechanisms Are Healthy

and that‘s okay.

I‘m serious. Developing an alcohol addiction is a negative coping mechanism. Believing you are a fictional character, creature, or other real person (copelinking, a otherkin term) is a negative coping mechanism when it’s gone too far. Physically hurting yourself is a negative coping mechanism. By no means are we wanting them to hurt themselves to feel better. We don’t want to see them hurt.

Insulting, shaming, mocking and overly criticizing people however does more harm to those people than good.

It can be triggering to be around that person who drinks a lot. It can be triggering to see people writing stories about suicide. It can be triggering to see people drawing characters suffering from eating disorders.

And that is okay, too. It doesn’t bring you comfort, no one should shame, insult, mock, or criticize you either for something only hurting you more.

You cannot judge coping mechanisms by how they help you or not. Some coping mechanisms, like self harm, are later controlled by therapists. With self harm, a lot of therapists recommend snapping a rubber band against the skin when the person sufferers from thoughts of self harm. It is still a negative coping mechanism, but there is a reason that people cope the way that they do. Stop placing judgement when you don’t know those people.

What I would do to have a fic which has billford past and developing billdip omg 😵‍💫 bill trying to date and flirt with dipper out of revenge AND to get attention from ford, dipper would never EVER date bill and he quickly realized wtf bill is trying to do and is annoyed. But throughout this whole push and pull between them makes bill realize that he's slowly liking dipper more and more. That now he genuinely just wants to spend time with him rather than acting this shit out for Ford.

um anyway

How many bad things have to happen before one has a heart attack? Just curious

Dont rb

once i get into warm blankie its over