Aaaa I Want To That Person For Some Random Kid One Day, Too Jedbjdb

Aaaa I want to that person for some random kid one day, too jedbjdb

i work at what's essentially a day camp.

a child came out of the closet to me today. he said he's aroace like me. I saw the smile arc across his face when he heard me get excited at what he said. he's not a shy boy, but he's soft spoken and doesn't really hang out with many of the other kids. but he's gotten comfortable with me. and when he whispered in my ear today that he's known he's queer and aroace for two years, it made me happy to be the adult that he could rely on. I'm becoming the queer adult that little queer me needed. it's healing. and its making sure that the damage is never done to him in the first place.

protect queer children.

From people who are against men being lesbians, their opinions about male/female multigender lesbians seems to fall into one of two categories:

"They can be lesbians even though they're men, because being multigender means they're not REALLY men," or

"They can't be lesbians even though they're literally women attracted to women, because being multigender means they're not REALLY women."

And both are shitty! It's not enough to validate someone's male identity or their lesbian identity- unless you validate both, you're being a transphobic asshole, full stop. And there's no way to validate both aspects of a multigender male lesbian's identity if you believe men can't be lesbians.

I'm a mean lesboy personally. :)<-unintentionally ominous smiley lmfao

mean & nice lesboy flags!!

meanings:

original darker shaded mean lesboy flag. I changed it bc it lost the original blue it had in favor for white

original nice lesboy flag. I changed it bc I felt like it didn't potray the "nice" part enough

I'm working on making a twibbon for it, the site is just being uncooperative at the moment!

soft like the month of june ✨

Yeah like,, being an inclusionist is rad asf. Like I can just vibe, and other people can just vibe, so we're all vibing. Beating someone into boxes just sounds like a very boring and pitiful pastime to me

Legit being an Inclusionist is actually really fun and easy to do. Not giving a fuck about what someone labels themself as or why is fun and easy to do. Letting people express themselves and not harassing them into fitting perfectly cut boxes is fun and easy to do.

Being an Inclusionist is great. It's legit like. I'm here. I'm sitting here. We are both sitting here. We are all just vibing. We are having a good time because none of us give a shit. That's it. That is literally it. Maybe come and quietly sit with us in a metaphorical field and you'll feel better and less full of toxic gatekeepy bigotry.

I'm so tired of queer infighting... "What about he/him lesbians" "What about the creator of this flag" "What about aroaces in relationships" "What about them saying a slur" "What about-" YEAH WHAT ABOUT IT??? A homophobe isn't gonna give a fuck about all the minute little details theyre just gonna hate us all the same. "You're one of the normal ones" they're fucking using that shit to make sure YOU kill your other queers, and by the time you're the only one remaining, they're gonna kill you too. Get over it stop fighting. I fucking hate this community.