Me When The Queer Community Invents Another Binary (it's Progressive And Inclusive This Time Guys I Swear)

me when the queer community invents another binary (it's progressive and inclusive this time guys I swear) instead of just fuckin, I don't know, ditching these wack ass binaries that do nothing but segregate us into groups of 'most oppressed' and 'less oppressed so you should shut up'

Really hate that the queer community's response to the creation of a gender trinary (girl, boy, and nonbinary, which is still not all-encompassing) was to... reinvent the binary. We just started grouping all genders into "masc/male-aligned" and "fem/female-aligned" and it's so fucking stupid. Even with the occasional allowance of "neutral/unaligned" it still maintains the binary as the standard. And then they don't let you use certain labels if you don't have the "right" gender alignment. The fuck.

I'm intersex and I don't think it's derailing, but I'm also not the entirety of the intersex community so I can't be too sure (and I assumed you were intersex because I forget that perisex people can make intersex characters without being weird about it, so that's why I asked if you were comfortable with it or not, thanks for clearing up the fact that you aren't).

I'll probably not tag the post with trans tags though; even though perisex trans men and mascs can also sometimes get pregnant, this post was originally about intersex people so it still feels a bit derail-y for that reason. thank you for getting back to me!

I write mpreg what I don't write is mpreg smut.

if I do write a dirty story that has a intersex character in it they are treated like anyone else- I don't write mpreg smut and I never will-maybe in the past but that was before I knew what intersex was so I didn't add that to it.

I can't write a proper dirty story to save my life.

I can read one but i rather not write one- I have a untamed one and even that story isn't all that dirty.

in my books mpreg is treated like pregnancy- I don't understand why mpreg is seen as weird when it's just pregnancy but with a guy character.

What's the big deal about it.

Also if I had no way to be told otherwise it's because one no say anything and two people assume mpreg ia sexual and that's weird that you think that- I remember someone on here who was trans has a post about how people found mpreg weird when some guys like him want to have a bio child.

lets stop treating mpreg like it's this gross thing.

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If we didn't put so much pressure on men to be 'alpha' stone cold sex gods, we would get at least one step closer to preventing young insecure men being sucked into that manosphere shit. If we taught men that it's okay to be emotional, that their self worth isn't affected by how many women they sleep with or how dedicated they are to the 'grind', maybe then we'd see the makings of a better world. Less incels made to feel victimized by a woman's right to rejection, less young boys thinking that rejection makes them failed men. If we taught them that their self-worth isn't based on women, and that doesn't mean that 'women ain't shit', perhaps we'd see a breakthrough.

It's so frustrating that people tend to see women's rights in direct opposition to alleviating men's issues. We can do both. The patriarchy steps on men's toes too, it hurts everyone in certain ways. To abolish the patriarchy means to address women's rights and their struggles, as well as men's issues. that's a conversation that not many people are willing to have; they see 'men's issues' and instantly think 'misogynistic erasure of women's issues', and it shows.

Being sympathetic towards men doesn't mean the enabling of sexism towards women, nor does it mean ignoring how a man's actions can reenforce that sexism. you can hold men accountable without demonizing an entire gender for how they were raised in a system that aims to not only destroy women and their rights, but the men who are being dragged along by a rope thinking that's the only way for them to live. But how dare I try to make people see nuance in a nuanced issue? man bad and all that.

YEAH. It pisses me off so much. I just want to browse queer tags without seeing nsfw but I guess some people are too GOOD to properly tag their shit. y'all... there are existing tags. Creating new ones feels like a way to dodge the filter and disrespect those of us who don't want to see sex posts in sfw tags! is it REALLY so much to ask for people to not post their ENTIRE dick and balls without proper tagging??!

I'm not entirely convinced some of these blogs are real people though, some of them feel like bot accounts or pieces of shit that steal the nsfw photos of trans women for fetish content. still fucking annoying because tags get flooded by improperly tagged nsfw. 'oh but if we tagged these things correctly we'd get mass reported or something!' an issue that needs to be resolved, but not by pulling out the ancient texts of old to make your fuckass 8 million fuckin tags that EVADE MY FILTERS I am so TIRED-

The amount of people who don't know how to tag shit properly on queer tags is INSANE. There's so much porn/nsfw on our feed because no one can just tag something 'nsfw' they have to invent some new fucking tag like 'lesbian ns/fw' or 'ns/ft.' I don't want to have to filter 50+ tags just because youre too lazy to tag properly.

"hey so intersex people are oppressed and I think we should change that"

perisex trans people: STOP!!! STOP!!!!! you're impeding on my trans activism please shut up forever about this