HELP ME

HELP ME

I'M CRYING WHY DID TRUMP TAG PAPYRUS

this is such a crazy common experience that you'd think eventually transphobic cis lesbians would buzz off about this. I guess not

Whenever I think about that new trending song (can't remember the artist but it's like "standing face to face with I told you so!")

I'm reminded of how I IDed as a transmasc/butch lesbian and I felt super happy and connected and stuff, but was driven away from the community by cis lesbians, and how now, no matter how much I miss and love and connect to the lesbian label, I'll never feel safe or welcome in those spaces again, so I stay away to protect myself lol.

They insisted I was "just a man" or a "confused trans man" or something bc I take T. I am agender.

It also sucks bc my parter is transmasc nonbinary and feels the same, but after watching what happened to me, doesn't want to bother with the community, either.

Based

In case you didn't know, Emily Gwen — the creator of the 'sunset' lesbian flag — is mspec lesbian exclusionary. This isn't a call to stop using the flag; I hate flag discourse, and believe that if you like and feel represented by a flag, you should use it. However, I felt it necessary to make this post, so I did.

almost all of the 'mean lesbian uwu' people are just white misandrists too. try being a little too mean as a black person and you get demonized and/or thrown in jail but white women can be all kinds of dickish with no consequence

please don't kill me for this, based on my own experiences but, I wish marginalized white people would listen to the voices of BIPOC especially if they're ALSO marginalized too.

I'm getting tired of dealing with and seeing constant tokenism and microagressions or straight up racism especially from white people. I'm tired of people also speaking over us. I hate how queer spaces especially on this fuckass website feel so white usamerican centered. guhhh

Sorry, you can't murder murderers.

Sorry, you can't castrate rapists and pedophiles.

Sorry, you can't use the worst offenders in society as unconsenting lab rats in medical research.

Sorry, you can't decide that theres any point of evil in which someone's fundamental human rights no longer exist. Yes, even if they have violated the fundamental human rights of others. What exactly do you think the term "inalienable" means?

If you believe that NOBODY deserves it, then NOBODY deserves it. Full stop. You can not pick and choose, even when you hate that person, even when they are unquestionably, undeniably evil and remorseless. There is no point where that no longer applies.

"But that's unfair!" Protecting inalienable human rights for EVERYONE is more important than things being perfectly fair

"But they're evil!" See above.

"But their existence is a threat to others!" When do you get to decide when living human beings live or die? I thought you didn't like it when THEY did that

"But it makes me feel icky!" I dont care. Suck it up, muffin.

tranny dyke, boydyke and bulldyke are the roof over my head. let me, perhaps, add to the table: 'transsexual dyke' if nobody has already

the following words and phrases are magical, ethereal, and family to me: transsexual male, trans male, genderqueer ftm, trans fag, testo butch, tranny boy, ftm butch, tranny dyke, boydyke, bulldyke, boydyke, trans gay & tboy.