Buying Ppl Things Is SUCH A Rush.. Even If Its Just Like.. A Bag Of Their Favorite Chips Or Whatever..

buying ppl things is SUCH a rush.. even if it’s just like.. a bag of their favorite chips or whatever.. the thought of someone experincing even a split-second burst of happiness bc they didn’t expect to get some of their favorite chips that day? what a thrill! love it

all I want is a cute apartment with big windows, sunshine streaming through, a full bookcase, the smell of coffee and to be content and at peace with life

I’m so pink silk but I’m also very black leather

I think we’re kind of starting to get away from this but have y’all noticed how in the vast majority of popular media, sex scenes don’t actually tend to involve a lot of talking/fumbling/awkwardness unless it’s for humor or to indicate that the people having sex are a.) probably Wrong for each other somehow or b.) inexperienced, possibly having sex for the first time?

but “good” sex, between people who are experienced and In Love etc, is almost always effortlessly athletic and steamy and they somehow telepathically know exactly what to do. I’m not talking about knowing what their lover enjoys, that’s entirely feasible, but they never even have to coordinate what they’re doing. there’s no “do you want me on top?” or “do you want to do [x]?” or accidentally getting in each other’s way.

the overwhelming message that I’ve always gotten from pop culture is that Good Sex happens without communication and, more dangerously, that needing to communicate is a sign that you’re somehow bad at sex, when in reality that’s almost definitely a sign that you’re, you know, a considerate partner who actually gives a shit about people being comfortable when they have sex with you.  

heartwarming resolutions to have not only for the new year, but for every day

tell the people you love that you love them

tell yourself that the people you don’t love or necessarily like are still vaild to someone in some way. no, you don’t have to tell them that too

allow yourself to live in the moment

keep working towards self-love

now spread that self-love to those around you

get involved with movements that you stand behind

educate yourself fully on the movements that you stand behind

open your eyes, really open your eyes to nature/ it’s a beautiful place

give more

give to yourself too

practice breathing exercises when you feel anxious

allow yourself to feel pain and grief and anger

now force yourself to think positively and move forward

spend more time doing the things you love

spend time doing the things you always said you’d love to do

practice coexisting and understanding

open your heart to the expression of others

love love love

RECLAIMING MY TIME