I Know What People Are Getting At When They Say Not To Do This But I Do Actually Appreciate Knowing If

I know what people are getting at when they say not to do this but I do actually appreciate knowing if someone's mental illness is at work when they give me an apology? like I don't think it's wrong to say "sorry for ghosting you, I had a paranoid episode and could barely look at my phone for two months" or "sorry for missing this event, I was really depressed and couldn't get out of bed" or "sorry I acted really weird and left quickly the other day, something triggered me and I couldn't figure out how to cool down until I was alone" because those are full and complete answers that would be less accurate if the symptom were edited out. I know what those things mean and I would actually prefer to know if my friend messed something up for reasons not entirely within their control rather than have them attempt to take responsibility for things they already actively try to avoid doing.

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Tryin this again!!

Hi!! so back in april i tried to do a curator bracket that unfortunately didnt get enough curies. So! Im tryin this again! those that already submitted one last time do not need to submit again (unless you updated their design or simply want to). I need at least 3 more curies, but i will be accepting submissions till the 30th at 11:59pm pt time!

also if you wish to pull your curie out of this poll for any reason, feel free! just lemme know

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