Guys It/its Isnt A Free They/them Pass. Guys. Guys Plea

guys it/its isnt a free they/them pass. guys. guys plea

Trans fictives, factives, and other introjects whose gender is different from their source, I see you (and I am one of you!) Navigating source and fandom can be difficult and at times dysphoria-inducing, but I believe in you, and that you can do what is best for you.

Our scries for our random fathoms (we got SO lucky with the girl, the boy was a bit harder to scry but I like his tropical colors)

And our anniversary hatch, who we just knew would make a great fathom. We wanted to do glowtail since it made her tail look like a big piece of kelp, but... we're already spending gems on the yellow one so we need to stop somewhere.

And also with this new breed, I'm changing my plans for my Flight Rising version of me. I guess this counts as a fandragon since I'm a fictive?

Image reference:

-Tsunami (she/her)

another reminder to stop buying/watching/reading anything JK Rowling associated

the toilets in this gamer cafe have this quote on the wall and a speaker absolutely blasting the tetris theme on repeat... cannot describe how hostile this atmosphere is

While I'm talking about social stuff I had to learn as an autistic person

There's a LOT of social interactions between human beings whose purpose really boils down to being like that thing dogs do where they go "omg YOU'RE a dog??? I'M a dog!!!!!" And that's not a bad thing. Highly ritualized "meaningless" displays of human connection like friendly greetings and talking about things like weather actually do serve a purpose which is like idk ritualized displays birds do. YOU'RE a human? Omg I'M a human!!!! Wow!!!

And they don't have to be your favorite flavor of interaction. You can even think they're silly. But they DO serve a purpose or else they wouldn't be a thing.