Like To Charge, Reblog To Cast.

Like to charge, reblog to cast.

People often tell me that they feel they're disrespectful when they ask questions about systems and I'm like

ITS BETTER TO ASK A QUESTION THAN BE IGNORANT FOREVER IF IM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH SOMETHING I'MMA JUST TELL YOU

i think a lot of younger systems would be better off if they took a minute to stop stressing about roles or consciousness labels or headspaces or origins and just treat members of their system like random guys. that one headmate you can't tell the role of? they like hot chocolate with marshmallows and listening to the rain. you too. you need to be a random guy. being a random guy is good for everyone.

PSA: you can find things disrespectful, distasteful, dubious, or uncomfortable without claiming them to be immoral. you can have your opinions without harassing people who are objectively harming no one.

having to pretend you're neutral on alts because antis have such a big misconception on what a proshipper is sucks ass