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For the love of god can we stop allowing endogenic systems into traumagenic spaces??? I don’t care if endogenic WERE real systems. They do not deserve to be in spaces catered to TRAUMA survivors when they’re NOT trauma survivors.

And for the record, I don’t care what kind of endogenic you are. None of you deserve to be in our spaces that we have created for each other. You do not get to claim our experiences without EXPERIENCING them. You are not systems. You have never been systems. You will never be systems. No matter what you THINK you know about systems, you are wrong.

If you think you’re a system the same as an actual system who has been through hell, you’re delusional. Endos have been proven fake time and time and time and time again. It’s almost like endos all think that being proven wrong is a form of oppression they’re gonna get trauma from.

If that were true, you’d all be ACTUAL systems instead of pretending you’re one in your echo chambers. Endos are not valid. They are not systems. They do not deserve to be recognized as systems. Leave traumagenic spaces out of your brainless endogenic echo chambers.

having to pretend you're neutral on alts because antis have such a big misconception on what a proshipper is sucks ass

"Ugh this fandom has so many proshippers and hentai artists. No wonder people hate the fandom."

No actually, 90% of fandom spaces do not have a problem with either of these things. The reason people hate the fandom is because of people like you trying to gatekeep, doxxing people over something they posted, and generally being a toxic person.

problematic alter culture is having to keep insys relationships a secret because theyre a “problematic ship” (this is coming from a dipper dating a bill cipher smh) (we are both adults here what is the problem)

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i think a lot of younger systems would be better off if they took a minute to stop stressing about roles or consciousness labels or headspaces or origins and just treat members of their system like random guys. that one headmate you can't tell the role of? they like hot chocolate with marshmallows and listening to the rain. you too. you need to be a random guy. being a random guy is good for everyone.

Weird question but are you okay with fandom antis interacting as long as they stick to alterhuman topics? If not, would you prefer to be warned if someone is one?

Uhhhhhh.

So I want you to take this in the gentlest, kindest possible way. I don’t hate you personally, I don’t know who you are or what you’re like. I have nothing against you as a person.

Fandom antis have a body count. A week ago, a fifteen year old took their life because they were bullied by antis so bad they didn’t know they had any other option of escaping. A queer, disabled, recent rape victim had their career in animation - a very competitive field - and will likely never get it back over a friend deciding that drawn porn of aged-up characters on a side account as locked down as possible was the exact same thing as actual CSEM. The resulting poverty may kill that person.

Those two are not the first victims of antishipping. I’ve seen more actual predators who do prey on actual children in antishipping circles than I have fingers. I’ve had friends assaulted by those who self-identify as antis.

I get wanting to be protected and safe, especially when you’re underage and wary. But NSFW spaces are not for them, and I know far too many incidents where antis snuck in anyway, lying the whole way, and proceeded to take screenshots of what they saw, expose them to the world, and call it pedophilia when it’s not.

Lines on a screen or paper are not real people. They do not have feelings. They do not exist. Comparing them to actual CSEM is a fuck-you in the face of every single survivor of CSA and COCSA, and as that’s what antis believe, I do not trust them. I do not give a single flying fuck what someone ships. Activism is not based in fandom. You don’t protect anyone by insisting that nobody can ship anything but the most pure and vanilla shit.

There was a time where I was live and let live about this particular subject. The first artist who was given homemade cookies at a con that actually had razor blades in them - I was willing to go “Okay, every group has a few crazies, that sucks but isn’t indicative.”

Last week I watched on twitter as a fifteen year old died and a content creator lost their career, and antis were celebrating. Someone fucking died, and they were glad. I can understand not mourning the loss - does anyone mourn murderers on death row, really? - but you don’t have to celebrate the death of a fifteen year old, and there are so many lines such a person would have to cross for that to be even remotely justifiable. I did not see a single anti admitting that maybe they fucked up. I didn’t see a speck of remorse, and trust me, I was looking.

Anyone who looks me in the eye and says they’re an antishipper is someone who looked at what happened last week and is okay allying with the people who killed that poor teenager. They’re okay allying with the people who started a witch hunt and ruined someone’s career, fully aware that doing so would risk killing them via poverty. And anyone who agrees with that is a person I want far, far away from me.

I have seventeen thousand words of explicit incest porn on my AO3, ten thousand of which are very much underage. I’ll write more as I have the executive dysfunction to do so. I do not have to justify that, and I will not, not in defense of myself, I shouldn’t need to have to justify it. If anyone does want to know out of curiosity, I can talk about it, but I refuse to justify writing whatever the hell I want to write.

Thought crimes aren’t crimes. If nobody’s getting hurt, then it’s not so bad. And if someone is, and it’s a crime, put them through the legal system and have them tried by a jury. If we assume guilty until proven innocent, there will be so much innocent blood on our hands it will never come off.

So no. No, I’m not okay with fandom antis following me unless they’re willing to reconsider on that view. If you never thought hard about it and didn’t know any of this, then I can forgive you, we all have to learn and I’d prefer people did so before anyone gets hurt. If you’re doing it because your friends are and you enjoy not losing your friends, then changing their minds or getting friends that won’t turn on you for questioning them is probably a better idea. But if you’ve heard me out and still want to ally with those sorts of people, do so far away from me.

Some of you aren't being progressive as you think you are.

“The lgbtq are getting too complicated nowadays—“ YOUR SO BORRRINNGGGG BOOOOOO REJECT NORMALCY! BE YOURSELF! BOOOOOO DONT LET BORING PEOPLE RUIN YOUR HAPPINESS 🫧🎀

PSA: you can find things disrespectful, distasteful, dubious, or uncomfortable without claiming them to be immoral. you can have your opinions without harassing people who are objectively harming no one.

”shipping adult x minor, red flag!!” You interacting with MY blog knowing I’m a proshipper, RED FLAG!

" Well, tell your parents you're proship! "

Tell your parents that you harass and leak personal information over fiction. Tell them that you think this is okay. Tell them that you're telling people to kill themselves over things that aren't real. Tell them that. Tell your parents you support censorship.

Your parents are going to think you're fucking insane. They're likely going to punish you. Rightfully. Because y'all aren't the ones in the right. Never have been or will be. Hell, they might fucking take legal action. I HOPE THEY DO.

Nothing that Proship, Comship OR darkship folk ship or support (in FICTION.) is illegal. Doxxing is! Harassment and cyberstalking/cyberbullying is!! Pushing someone to suicide is technically murder!! Murder is illegal!

Maybe when proshippers tell people about how it actually is, like therapists and whatnot... normal people don't say: " Yeah, you need to commit self-oof. "

Maybe, just maybe! Hypothetically! We might actually be the normal ones! No matter how much misinformation you spread, there will never be a point in time where you are right. At all.

Also, if your morals are so fucked that fiction can sway it:

Get off the Internet. You're not in a good enough state of mind to be here.

The argument of “what if a child sees this?” is so funny to me cause, sweetie, there are two reasons why that’s not my problem:

Children ignore warnings and some parents don’t know how to parent- I tag my shit properly so if the child is old enough to read and actually comprehend what they are reading, they should be able to tell that it’s not something they want to see. If they click it anyways, it’s not my fucking problem. I tried. They ignored the warning and if they are just that young, blame the parents for not watching what their kids are getting into. The parents not parenting their kids is the true issue there.

I’m not a daycare attendant and never will be - I’m not a fucking babysitter or a kids content creator. I’m a grown adult that has every right to make NSFW content if I choose to. I’m not going to “keep it kid friendly” when I don’t have to cause everyone else’s kids are not my problem. I don’t have nor will I ever have a child and I’m not nor will I ever be someone else’s “village”.

"supporters of child porn" is a bold claim; i support people shipping what they want and doing as they please with FICTION

we are anti endo because it literally cannot exist. endogenic systems are impossible. please properlt educate yourself.

boo !!

hi we are the confused collective !! we are an undiagnosed DID system of an undisclosed amount of alters !!

we are: problematic! proship, profic, anti endo, we do not engage in most syscourse, we do not support fake claiming for any reasons

reminder that mspec lesbians and male lesbians and he/him lesbians and trans(masc/neu/fem) lesbians have existed for decades and are fucking amazing lesbians that deserve space in the lesbian community

We don’t owe you simplicity.

Good.

I'd rather hangout with the straight boyfriend than the queer cop who insists they're one of the "good ones" while harassing people of color

I'd rather hangout with the straight palestinian grandma than the queer zionist who keeps insisting that the death of palestinians is the one way ticket to queer liberation

I'd rather hangout with the leather dyke who is a mspec gaybian and uses paw/pawself pronouns than the puritan who makes "callout posts" clearly targeting disabled queer artists

“One of your alters doesn’t like me!”

My dude some of my alters don’t like ME. You ain’t special.

DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT RARE DID IS NOT-

Unpopular opinion that alot won't like

Your triggers are your responsibility. It isn't the world's obligation to tiptoe around you.

- Vesper

People often tell me that they feel they're disrespectful when they ask questions about systems and I'm like

ITS BETTER TO ASK A QUESTION THAN BE IGNORANT FOREVER IF IM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH SOMETHING I'MMA JUST TELL YOU

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