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😳😳😳 I don’t get it, I just don’t get it. What did we ever do to them? Why don’t they want us to be happy? Why do they think it’s a choice? Why would we choose to be discriminated against, why would we choose to be hated, why would we chose to deal with the things shown in the picture? Being gay is not a choice!!! All we want is to be happy with the one we love, just like anyone else! Is that asking too much?!

A Gender Neutral and Orientation Blind Guide to Harmful Behaviors in Relationships

I recently had to deal with rehash from a past relationship that I wish I knew going into it. So I’m going to impart wisdom on the people who are looking for a partner or are already with a partner. I was sick of trying to look for relationship advice and only finding advice for women in my time of need.

This is also me venting so there will be a lot of past relationship examples.

TRIGGER WARNINGS: Sexual assault, rape, suicide, self-harm, mind games, kink talk. 

Please reblog from the source. If I missed anything or my information is slightly off, tell me politely via ask and I will add it and correct it.

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Behaviors

The level of Clingyness. 

No I’m serious. It sounds cute, and for a small bit it is. However if the relationship has been going on for a while and they are not showing signs of independence (approximately 3 months going on), that is not a good sign. For example, one of my exes would not play the MMO we both played until I was able to go online. He would text me numerous times asking if I was home yet or if I could call. Sure that sounds ok, but we’re talking about multiple times per day. If I wanted to play alone for a while, I would have to sneak around. Even then, as soon as I would pop online there, I would get a notification as soon as I sign on of him wanting to add me to party, or he was there in the same spot I was. It is an indicator of stalker like behavior. On the flipside, a partner not wanting to spend time with you or always busy isn’t good either. If the person won’t respond or just flat out would rather spend time with other people, it’s a sign you should look elsewhere. However, if they do not end the relationship they are stringing you along and you should end it.

Arguments:

Your relationship will have bumps along the way, and you may get into arguments. A healthy argument is essential for the survival of a relationship. There may be words thrown around, and your ego may be bruised. However, if the person hits you or you hit them, that is abusive. Abuse doesn’t have to be physical however. It could be emotional or verbal. For example, in my past relationship, we would have daily fights. If I chose not to deal with him, as I’ve told him numerous times that if I fly off the handle I seek solitude so I can cool off (none of the times he listened), he’d whine and pout because I wasn’t paying attention to him. This turns a small problem into a four hour argument over practically nothing. The arguments would range from me being on a character he had yet to level, not calling as soon as I got home, wanting to level by myself, wanting to call other people rather than him, etc. Even after the relationship ended he would start arguments. He’d insist that I should apologize for the stuff he started. He’d guilt trip and cry fake tears if he didn’t get his way, which is immature at best. If your partner does any of these things, LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. However if there is physical abuse involved, or you think you or the people around you are in danger, the situation is delicate and you need to take precautions.

Manipulation:

Oh boy, where do I begin with this one….

Manipulation could be any of the following:

* Attempts of Negative Change:

First of all, you are you. No person you date should want to change that. No one is worth changing for. Any person who wants to change you IS NOT worth your time. I’ve been in 3 different relationships where the person changed for me or they requested I change myself for them. I dated a person in the marines when I was 15 and not out publicly as a transman. He called me his “queen” and turned down my identity for his convenience. I stated several times I identified as male. Eventually I ended it because it was dead and I was sick of his shit. The second one was a guy that I knew for 2 years before I started dating him. A week into it I came out to him and he seemed okay with it. However he would talk often about how pretty I would look in a bridal gown and how he wanted me to be his perfect wife. Each time I would gently remind him that I was a man and should be treated as such. A month and a half later I pushed a bit more and he stated outright that he was not okay with it and planned to sabotage my transition. I dumped him through Facebook because I did not want to wait until we met face to face again, the only time I violated my own personal beliefs.

* Suicide /Self Harm Threats:

This topic is a bit difficult to explain, since it’s very delicate if brought up. It’s also hard to discern if they’re trying to guilt trip you or they’re speaking the truth. I will use two instances to explain the difference.

Talking about the suicide and or self-harm of yourself or others is a heavy topic. It’s delicate to deal with since in a way it is violence. After someone I liked rejected my advances because “they were gay and were not interested in people who were at one point a woman” I fell quickly into a denial of myself. I felt disgusted of my existence for the second time in my life. I kept plunging deeper into depression at an alarming rate, to the point that I first thought about, then told my friends that my existence was a mistake I was going to correct. I thank my friends for staying by me until I felt better, even though it ranged until late at night. They kept refuting me calling myself “Frankenstein’s bitch”, “Disgusting”, “Not truly a man”, Etc. and showered me with compliments and told me how much life would suck to the people around me if I did such. I thank them profusely for not letting me go through with it, and I wouldn’t be here today if they didn’t talk me out of it.

This is not to be confused with using the threat of self harm and or suicide to have people do what you say. Recently, my ex and I got into a fight and I did not want to talk to him. He claimed that I owed him a call for all the things I did to him, such as abandoning him for my partner, even though I told him if my partner gets online and wants to call I would leave him. I didn’t want to talk to him after it. The next day he wanted to call and I did not. He said that I owed him, and when I tried to terminate the friendship due to how he was speaking with me he started telling me he was cutting himself. He even texted me an unwanted picture of his cut up wrist, which I did not want a picture of nor did I request it. After that I blocked him, since that was enough to know he was being manipulative. He then took it to the group chat in my guild and said he deserved an apology and that I did nothing to try and stop him from killing himself. My partner intervened at this point and told him he didn’t have to bring it to that chat. That no one was going to force him to do so but no one was going to stop him either. It was that point that I left every group he and I were ever in together and contacted his friend to call his mother about all this, since I didn’t have her number. The thing is, this comes from a guy that if I even wanted to spend time away from him he thought I didn’t care and cried.

The main difference is that the person persists to have an “Over here I’m teetering on the edge look at me save me omg please I’m going to fall look” or “If you do (x) I won’t end my life or hurt myself“ type attitude about it. In something like that there is nothing you can do but remove them from your life. If someone threatens self-harm and or suicide it is a serious matter. Even if you suspect them to be using it to toy with your emotions, you need to contact someone that can physically talk with them and keep an eye on them.

Harassment:

This is a big one. Harassment is usually when the person won’t leave you alone when you’ve asked, or keep trying to pry when you don’t want to talk about it. This is an indicator of stalker-like behavior, and sometimes leads to or is sexual assault. The person usually goes very far in order to get what they want, be it you, the information you possess, or other things. They might not listen to you if you ask them to stop. After I blocked my ex he went to extreme measures to win me back. He combed our past group chats for one I did not leave and begged for me to call him after he did. And when I said it was too late to make amends he failed to leave me alone. I had to get people to intervene and even then he didn’t listen to those people. He talked through a common friend of ours. He even messaged me on the MMO. I had to dissolve my guild and make a new one, telling him he was not to be involved with the new one in any way nor talk to me in game. He violated that by repeatedly asking for admittance into the guild. He claimed he lost a good friend, one that he trusted with his life, one that he deeply respected. However, whenever I told him to leave me alone he would just keep trying to persuade me to reinstate the friendship. Eventually my partner put his foot down and intervened again, helping me to finally remove him from my life for good. So as a reminder, it’s okay to ask people to handle it if you cannot.

Sex and Kinks:

Sex comes with trust and respect, and is a healthy part of any relationship. Sex pertains to any activity ranging from oral, anal, vaginal, grinding, etc. It’s recommended that you talk with your partner about it before it happens, as it is a huge step.

* Persuasion:

Your partner shouldn’t need to persuade you to have sex. It’s all up to you whether or not to take that step or not, and how far to go. If you want to stop, your partner should stop. If they do not stop, since you have taken back your consent it falls under rape. If your partner takes back their consent, you must stop. If they force you and you said no (visa versa as well), legal action can be taken.

* Safe Sex:

Sex should be done carefully using lubricant, condoms, dental dams, and other contraceptives. The person could have STDs or STIs. If you aren’t careful you or your partner could get hurt. If there is a possibility of pregnancy and either one of you aren’t wanting kids for a while, it would be safe if condoms and birth control were used.

* Kinks and Safety with Kinks:

Kinks are a normal thing to have. Since you and your partner are individuals, you may both have kinks that the other does not have. It is perfectly okay if you don’t share every kink. You also aren’t obligated to fulfill your partner’s kinks that you both do not share, or any kinks for that matter. If your partner wants to, you have the option to say no. If your partner tries to force you to participate in a kink you don’t want to, you should cease the encounter immediately. My ex used to pester me about giving him a foot job (I do not have a foot kink. Rather I am repulsed by feet). So it is a serious matter if the person does not respect that you don’t like something. In a relationship with BSDM involved, Safety and aftercare is essential. Trust and communication are also very important to kinks with risk of injury. If something is hurting you, your partner must know. Safety words can help with retracting out of the mood to assess the situation, or if the situation is getting out of your comfort zone. This is because words like “help” and “stop” may not work. You should not get hurt over something that is supposed to bring pleasure to you and your partner. Aftercare is important to the sub so that they feel loved. Sometimes if an s-type does not receive aftercare, they may experience subdrop. Subdrop can manifest itself almost immediately after the scene and last for hours, even days. The s-type may experience some mental and physical stress, such as anxiety, self-hatred, headaches, the desire to leave the scene and or partner, rage, and dizziness to name a few. Remember in kinks such as BSDM you’re playing a role.

Listening:

Listening is a major part of any relationship. If your partner does not listen to your thoughts or opinions, this could cause problems. My ex never seemed to listen to me. That was our biggest flaw in our former relationship, and was ultimately what made me terminate it. I kept telling him I needed space to breathe, which I said since day one. However the relationship forced me to push my schoolwork aside, which caused my grades to drop to failing. Even as I ended it he failed to listen about how his lack of listening was making me feel. He ignored my own feelings, believing that we could make it work even when I fell out of love. As things kept going and fights kept happening, I realized I couldn’t even be friends with him. After I blocked him for his behavior he kept trying to win me back, evading the blocking by addressing me in group chats, begging me to forgive him. He didn’t listen and kept pressing when I said no, and didn’t listen to the people that intervened. He was dead set on winning me back as a friend. If a person doesn’t listen to you, it indicates that they have no respect for you.

In conclusion, you are a wonderful person that deserves a partner that will love and tolerate the shit out of you. You deserve a partner who understands you and listens to you and a partner who you communicate well with.

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