Just So Y'all Know, When You Are In A Relationship, You And Your Partner Are Entitled To Private Spaces.

Just so y'all know, when you are in a relationship, you and your partner are entitled to private spaces.

I know y'all were raised with the whole "if you love me then I should be able to walk unhindered through your life without question" but that shit is bullshit.

Super Spouse and I have endured some severe forms of personal space invasion that includes people going through our mail.

That ain't cool no matter how close you are to someone.

Look, Trust, with a capital T, requires you to let go of your own trauma and accept that this person will absolutely share their life with you, even the embarrassing parts.

Both Super Spouse and I have been violated in awful ways, and now, we Trust each other with such veracity that we actually take offense on behalf of other people.

I recently built a fucking folding room divider so that my boo could have an even more relaxed space of his own since his space is in the living room.

Some people might see that as "but what if!"

I see that as "my boo gets to relax even if I pass through the area to make hot chocolate."

We got to test it out for the first time this morning, and he was able to do his thing without worry, and I made hot chocolate.

Y'ALL HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS PLEASED ME.

Or maybe you do if you have experienced life with family who feels they should be able to violate every section of your life no matter how private.

I'm sorry, sweethearts, but while being in a relationship does mean ultimate trust, it doesn't mean you get to invade every second of their life. Ultimate Trust is being able to give your boo their own space, which they share with you on their own accord.

Those are some beautiful moments right there.

People on tumblr are like "I'm handing all my mutuals a bowl of soup we are kissing with tongue we are the bestest of besties I am killing and dying for you" but sometimes me and the mutuals are posting completely different shit existing on the same blogging platform but really we're just standing in the alley going "ayup" at each other like fucking king of the hill.

The time for games is over! Weed smoking girlfriends attack!

by mimiarr

if y’all want to date anyone 5’4 an under i’m going to need you to recognize that there is effort involved. they need their outside time but you have to be willing to stand around with them too bc you never know what birds of prey are in the area and it is your responsibility as their partner to make sure they don’t get scooped up. like. that is the bare minimum. c’mon