Y La Culpa No Era Ma, Ni Dnde Estaba Ni Cmo Vesta. El Violador Eres T.

Y la culpa no era mía, ni dónde estaba ni cómo vestía. El violador eres tú.

"And the fault isn't mine, where I was or how I dress. You are the rapist."

Those are the translated lyrics of the Latin feminist hymn originated in Chile.

The lyrics have been criticized by anti-feminists (specially in mexico) and so many women started tweeting about their experience with sexual assault (where they were and what they were wearing) accompanied by the lyrics and DataPopMX just released some statistics based on 2,832 tweets:

In 68% of the sexual assaults occurred between 4 and 6 years old, they wore pajamas and were in family home.

In 26% of the sexual assaults occurred between 4 and 6 years old, they wore children's clothes and were in family home.

In 87% of the sexual assaults occurred between 9 and 11 years old, they wore their school uniform and were in family home.

In 59% of the sexual assaults occurred between 14 and 16 years old, they wore shorts and were on the street.

In 76% of sexual assaults occurred between 19 and 21 years old, they wore jeans and were at a friend's place.

In 8% of sexual assaults occurred between 19 and 21 years old, they wore skirts and were in public transport.

Of the 2,832 tweets in total 31% (877) occurred between 4 and 6 years old.

when talking about hollywood grooming age-gaps people talk a lot about the Drake (33) and Millie (15) situation and I’d like to present other cases that make me raise an eyebrow:

Wilmer Valderrama dated Demi Lovato when he was 31 and she was 18

John Mayer dated Taylor Swift when he was 32 and she was 19

Jake Gyllenhaal dated Taylor Swift when he was 30 and she was 20 and he is currently 38 dating 23 year old Jeanne Cadieu

Matthew Hussey dated Camila Cabello when he was 31 and she was 21

JayZ started dating Beyoncé when he was 30 and she was 18

Sam Taylor-Wood began dating Aaron Johnson when she was 42 and he was18

Scott Disick started dating Sofia Richie when he was 34 and she was 19

Tony Bennett started dating Susan Benedetto when he was 61 and she was 20

Deborra Lee-Furness started dating Hugh Jackman when she was 42 and he was 28

Alan Ferguson married Solange Knowles when he was 50 and she was 27

One of my least favourite dialogue tropes is when a man tells a woman, “You can’t do that” or “I wouldn’t do that if I were you” and she says, “Why? Because I’m a woman and therefore too weak to handle this/can’t take care of myself?” or something to that effect and the guy replies with, “No, because everyone who tried that ended up with a bullet in their brain” or something equally reasonable and not gender-specific that paints him as the rational not sexist guy and the woman as an irrational paranoid feminist who searches for sexism in everything. This whole scenario is built on the idea that sexism is over and women’s fears and suspicions don’t have a leg to stand on. It’s also self-congratulatory pseudofeminism bc it’s supposed to make the viewer/reader/listener feel that in this specific work of fiction women are treated respectfully and as equal with men.

I’m so sick of running as fast as I can Wondering if I’d get there quicker if I was a man And I’m so sick of them coming at me again ‘Cause if I was a man, then I’d be the man

I’ve been listening to Lover non stop since its release, so it was only a matter of time that I would do some fanart. More to come, maybe?