Is It Transphobic Of Me To Say That I Wouldn't Want To Have Sex With A Trans Woman? I'm A Lesbian And

Is it transphobic of me to say that I wouldn't want to have sex with a trans woman? I'm a lesbian and I have had crushes on trans women before but penises genuinely just make me feel so repulsed. Before I was sure I was a lesbian and I was questioning whether or not I was bisexual I ended up dating this guy and we tried to have sex and Injust absolutely could not do it. He was super nice and tried to make me feel as comfortable as possible and everything but literally just because he had a penis I could not go through with it. I guess if she had already gotten bottom surgery I'd probably be okay with it, but also I don't know much about mtf bottom surgery and it feels very gross to say that I'd never have sex with a trans woman unless she had bottom surgery because I also know that some trans people just don't want to get bottom surgery. It's not for everyone. And I don't feel any bad feelings towards trans women or trans people in general for being trans it's just that penises just like genuinely disgust me.

hi anon,

as someone who's pretty uninterested in penetrative sex myself, I don't think there's anything wrong about knowing what kinds of sex you are or aren't interested in. I don't particularly want a penis in any of my available holes, right?

having said that, I do think you are, at very least, overthinking this to a degree that is... I'm gonna say at the very least it's a bit yucky, how much focus you're putting on trans women's imagined genitalia. no one is making you have sex with trans women, let's just take a metric chill pill and stop sweating about the hypothetical presence of a penis.

I need him to plow inside me and when we're done he sleeps on top of me as we cuddle

How a relationship got infinitely more complicated in one night

I need testament carnally, like, i need them CARNALLY. I need them to stick my head between their thighs while I suck their unintelligible gear genitals while they pull on me tied up in rope. I hope they bite my neck until it bleeds then make me lick their boots. I hope they gag me and eat me out sloppy style while I pathetically quiver to their touch

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