One Of The First Steps To Becoming An Actual Caring Community.

One of the first steps to becoming an actual caring community.

Funny enough, feeding my loved ones and anyone else "friend-shaped" around - be it offering them snacks, inviting them out to lunch or inviting them over for dinner - has for years now been one of my strongest love languages. I feel the most connected to someone when sharing a meal with them.

legit the best advice i can give you: feed your friends

any time someone is in any kind of crisis or upheaval, offer to feed them. tell them they don’t have to choose what it is if they can’t make decisions, just ask about allergies and preferences and tell them you’re just gonna make food happen at their house.

friend having a baby? delivery gift certificate to order food to the hospital after the kid shows up.

someone’s relative passes away? offer to make them dinner.

buddy gets laid off? ask if you can order them lunch.

pal stuck in a depressive episode? offer to drive them to fucking mcdonalds, if that’s what they want.

people in crisis are tired and sad and angry and the last thing most of them are doing is thinking about feeding themselves. so if you have the ability or time or money, providing that is always, always a good move.

legit i do this all the time, and it is 100% always appreciated. i have taught all my friends that when something happens, we feed each other. it makes people feel extremely cared for, and I cannot recommend it enough.

reblog to bonk prev with yr forehead like a cat

Damn, I thought "Eeey, he lookin' good, he stylish, good for him, good for him."

And then the last picture just suckerpunched me out of nowhere.

Elliot Page Covers M Le Magazine Du Monde, June 2023

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