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There's a difference between "disabled" and "legally recognized as disabled," and I just want to give a shout-out to all the other disabled people who don't have formal diagnoses, who don't have access to benefits of any kind, who don't have the ability to use even the shittiest and least-helpful resources, because the process of getting legal recognition for disability sucks ass.

And another shout-out to all the disabled people who purposely avoid getting diagnosed, because official diagnoses can be used against you, and you're unable or unwilling to risk it.

Call now to recieve help with the inability to make phone calls!

Fill out this forum to receive assistance with your difficulty filling out forms

Come on down to our center thats two hours away so we can give assistance with your inability to walk or drive

There's help out there! You're just not trying hard enough!

Melting aluminum with an electromagnet.

actually now that i'm thinking about it. every single video game that lets you costumize characters but doesn't let you be fat is extremely revealing to the fact that most people can't imagine fat as something a person would want to be. there's other examples but like, fuck, i can't even choose to be fat in imaginary spaces. My size isn't accommodated for because they couldn't imagine a player who wants to be anything other than skinny.

Like, you see it right. How media shapes people's beliefs, and people construct beliefs into the things they create? If all you can ever choose to be in a game is one of two body shapes, and you have to physically alter the game to be anything bigger, like. "why would i imagine a world with you in it."

hey btw shout out to people whose hair is very important to them and are dealing with hair loss

A solidarity banner containing the names of Palestinian martyrs hangs on the Raouche in Beirut, Lebanon.

*doctor voice* hmmmm…..have you tried this revolutionary method called painmaxxxing? it is where you do not bother me and adjust to being in agony all the time and we do nothing to resolve the root cause or treat the symptoms. you don’t wish to try painmaxxxing? you’re being non-compliant with the treatment plan I have just provided you?

"it's so fucking over" yeah dude it's 11pm it's the end of the day it's time for you to go to bed. and tomorrow you'll be so fucking back because you'll be awake. go tuck yourself in dude you'll be ok

lots of times if I tell my boyfriend that I am proud of him for dealing with a situation, or that I'm sorry he's having to deal with a situation, he will say "no it's my own fault." meaning that he feels like he doesn't deserve praise or comfort for dealing with a situation that is his fault. (for example a financial problem caused or exacerbated by him having been too anxious or absentminded to deal with the situation sooner.) and I tell him this and I will tell y'all this, that I don't believe that. I think you are even braver and stronger for taking steps to deal with a mess that is of or partly of your own creation, because you have to cope with guilt and shame on top of the thing itself, and because you're fighting against the same ingrained dysfunction in yourself that caused the mess. that's like the bravest and most constructive thing you can do and you should be proud and I am proud of you.

I’m a cis boy and I’m constantly eggbaiting hot trans people online and irl.

I slip little calculated comments into conversation that make me seem like a repressed girl, or let out wistful little sighs at strategic moments.

I know I’m evil but this is the only way girls want to top me.

this is the most egg thing I have ever heard in my life

this website is so difficult to explain to people...how do i explain that commanding your scarab beetle around is an accepted and well-received posting style?

one reason abusive and neglectful parenting is common that people are scared to acknowledge is the sheer amount of couples who only had children because it was expected of them. as a result, they're going to first and foremost view their children as a status symbol, something to prove they're a good family.

the biggest tip i can say about trans inclusive language when discussing anatomy is to just say what you mean without trying to find a euphemism, and to be specific to the conversation that you're having. if you're having a conversation about childbirth, say "people who can give birth". not everyone who can give birth is a woman and not every woman can give birth (both trans and cis), so don't say "women" or "mothers" or "females", you don't even have to say like "womb haver" or whatever. "person who can give birth" is specific and clear if you're talking about childbirth.

if you're talking about penis and testes, just say that. "men" in that context is cis-centric. "amab genitals" means nothing, since trans women can have bottom surgery, and intersex people exist in all kinds of physical expressions of sex.

avoid sexualized terms like tits/boobs (use breasts) or dick, balls, etc. those terms take on a context that can make folks feel uncomfortable about their anatomy due to the sexual context. I feel uncomfortable when people try to be inclusive and say shit like "pussy haver" but if I'm reading a medical article about vaginas I'd much rather it be addressed to "people with vaginas" rather than "women"

the more we separate language of body parts from gender identities and actually start speaking frankly and respectfully about anatomy without acting like its some taboo, the better it will be for trans and intersex people. it can help cis people too. you can be a cis woman who doesn't have a womb, you can be a cis man who doesn't have penis or testes. imo this kind of language is inclusive not only for gender non-conforming people but everyone with a physical difference in their sex characteristics, due either to genetics or a lived experience!

jsyk if we're mutuals you have my express permission to masturbate to me

oh fuck all my noun phrases and passive participles are getting covered with pepto bismol please help

when I see something dated 2019 I think “oh that’s not too long ago” and then I remember that 2019 was not only five years ago but those five years have somehow contained several lifetimes

Another Sam & Max cosplay photoshoot because I finished upgrading my Sam cosplay

I made a new, smaller head for Sam and made him a new suit and nicer shaped hat from scratch. I have fixed Max up as well after these photos cause I noticed some more flaws and stuff and I tried picking the photos where it's less visible cause I didn't wanna bother anyone with retaking more photos...

sketchbook doodling from last night ⭐️

Just a Cicada reaching for the stars

Edit: it is gouache, color pencil, and digital for the star beams! (Some people seemed curious haha, it is mostly paint though)

Also, this design will be available as prints and probably keychains in the near future 😊💗

Prints available here!

so... 👉👈 which one(s)?

got this from twitter which colour am i

Hey guys!! I need to get a tetanus vaccine as a precaution. Had been walking along a flooded area and cut my feet on something. Lately, have not been getting as much work online- currently have three jobs, but are all unstable. I priced my comms as low as possible, but it's not a livable wage for me as with my comms only priced at 30 usd each (extremely difficult to get clients if I price higher

),I can usually only draw 10-15 a month.. I am the sole caretaker and the only working person in a family of 5- my mom is disabled due to being brain dead for a few hours after having sepsis from giving birth to my sister. She is a full time wheelchair user. My dad is chronically ill, and my sister who I have been a "parent" to is autistic with a low frustration threshold..! I'm doing the best I can..! If you guys could please pick up a print, or subscribe to my patreon (I have more than 300 exclusive drawings up there!) or buy the last two slots of commissions I have or even just send a tip.. it would mean the world to me. Ideally I'd love to have the vaccine by Friday..! Sorry and thank you again.

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