Xxmellowmelon - Blogging My Life One Day At A Time

DID/OSDD is like being a broken plate. Healing is like kintsugi.

You will never be the same again, but when you heal, you will be beautiful together.

Hello, I'm from Gaza

My name is Farah

Can you please help me to study at the university

Me and my family have lost our home, our car, and our dream to study

I hope just to help me to start my education

I was in my first year at university in Gaza but after the war, I lost everything my dream and my education 💔

Hope you really can help with anything

Thank you in advance

https://gofund.me/7417ca2b

https://gofund.me/0974b65e

Stay safe, and take care. I can't donate but maybe someone else can. 🩷

Sometimes I think I'm too open on the internet. And then sometimes I go "it could be worse".

I cant tell if it's worse or okay right now honestly?

hi any life advice for 21yo

Don't date thirty-year-olds until you are at least 25.

Having a glass of water for every glass of alcohol will give you a 50% reduction in hangover viciousness.

Bad people will use your willingness to be quiet as a weapon against you. If someone's being awful to you and trusting you'll be quiet to keep from making waves, surprise them.

There is no physical object in the world that is worth as much as your honor.

Honor is not the same as dignity. Retaining one sometimes means leaving the other aside.

Don't have any sex you don't want to have; have as much as you want of the sex that you do, whether that's a lot, a little, or none at all. Nothing you can do to your own body is immoral, unless you're doing it as an act of self-punishment.

Food is morally neutral. You do not have to earn the right to eat calories. Fat and sugar keep your brain from eating itself.

Learning to sit still and breathe--in, in, in, hold, hold, hold, out, out, out, out, out, out--can give you five feet of clear space around yourself in a maelstrom.

Find out how to make three good meals: A comfort meal you can make for just yourself relatively easily, a fancy meal you can use to wow a date, and a meal you can feed a bunch of people. All the other cooking can come later, but you can build a community on those three meals.

If you ever get to the point that things are so bleak you can see no other way forward but to die, make any other choice. If that means leaving everything you own and being a beach bum, or quitting your career, or taking up or leaving a religion, or deciding to bicycle across the country, so be it; living means more chances, dying means everything stops and you don't get to see any more interesting things. As you have not yet seen all the things that can interest you, it is better to live.

being a system that has quite a low split tolerance and fictive heavy is quite anxiety inducing when introducing ourselves online... like we started at around 7 and now we are at 48 and it takes WEEKS for a fictive to actually be allowed to show themselves usually because though we will hear things in our head it's just denial denial denial until they become too much to hide anymore.

and why do we do this??? because internet culture criticizes anyone and everyone who claims to have did and god forbid if they are NOT the "norm" of dissociative identity disorder.