Don't Use "ftm" It's Outdated And Offensive. It Implies That The Trans Person Was Their Agab, Which We

don't use "ftm" it's outdated and offensive. it implies that the trans person was their agab, which we never were. i was always a boy, never a girl who became a boy.

i'm 35 years old. i've been IDing as trans or something similar to trans for nearly 20 years. i was probably calling myself FTM while you were playing tag during recess, anon.

i WAS a girl. i IDed as a girl early in my life. i recognized myself as a girl, called myself a girl, lived as a girl, and was a girl. who then IDed as a man. hence, F t M.

spend more time worrying about yourself instead of strangers on the internet, anon.

sorry not sorry if this comes off as needlessly hostile, but i've been getting a lot of shit from a lot of teenage trans kids about the language i use to describe my own goddamn experience, and i'm growing real fuckin weary of it.

i have elder trans friends who call themselves transsexuals and transvestites and trannies. are you going to seriously go to a 60-year-old trans person who survived the reagan years and tell her she's not allowed to use certain language to describe herself because it might offend the delicate sensibilities of some teenager on the internet?

do yourself a favor and log off, find some real-life trans people who are over the age of 20 or 25, and spend time talking to them instead of getting all holier-than-thou at random strangers on tumblr.

FAT TITTY TUESDAY HAS BEGUN YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO

男性凝視不僅僅是凝視，它有資源和暴力作為支撐，男性掌握了大部分的經濟資源，越是在女性依賴男性、經濟不獨立的地方，女性越不得不試圖討好男性來獲得資源。男性凝視讓女性恐懼的另一個原因是，它和性騷擾、性暴力是直接掛鉤的。

在女性掌握和男性對等的資源與暴力以前，不可能僅靠「凝視回去」就獲得平等。凝視這個動作本身是毫無力量的，關鍵在於他凝視完了會做什麼，導致女性不得不在乎他們的眼光，迎合他們的審美。凝視是權力。女人在社會上沒有權力，所以不存在「女性凝視」。

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