About Tickling - Tumblr Posts
Even though I'm not as active post wise, this right here. Agree 1000% I had planned on posting some NSFW and im tired of seeing the cry of people basically doing: I don't like your stuff because it's this and makes me uncomfortable so cater to ME! If you don't you are this and that's bad!
In the future for those who follow me. I will be posting not only fluff But NSFW as well for me and to share with others. But this mentality to attack and not even think to separate reality from fantasy is ridiculous. Time to go with the saying: if you,don't like something, leave, don't click it when there are clear warning labels of the content. You can't blame the poster but yourself for letting curiosity get you.
So to those that follow me and if you are a minor: Be responsible and hold yourself accountable to what you come across. If I post something that is NSFW CONTENT don't read it, I can't stop you but only warn you what you come across. And you cross that bridge on your own if you chose to read.
Yall who bashed just one of the sweetest people on here, are coming for the wrong one. Look at yourselves before you start acting like a fool and quite frankly grow up and think before you speak. Not everyone will cater to you because that is not how the world works.
Getting serious
About minors, platonic tickling etc.
Uffff guys I know my blog is like 90% fun times and fluff, I avoid answering hateful asks, dislike to reblog negative posts that won’t have me go yaaay and fangirling and all, but I really need to get this rant off my chest and I know it will cost me a bunch of followers that do not agree, but that’s fine! This is just my opinion!:)
So I say in advance, please block or unfollow my blog if my opinion offends you. If you only follow my blog for TK fics, they will be on Ao3 so you can find them there. No hard feelings, I’m not here to argue or for discussion, after this I will continue posting tk trash fics and other fun content I promise. If you would like to talk to me about this matter, please just in chat or comment to this post^^ I won’t answer too many asks about it.
About minors
This is no personal attack to anyone who does this, but something I think is a bit off to me is how adults (and minors themselves actually) continue to call out for minors to be protected by us, by the community.
I am an adult (age-wise haha, 4ever acting like a teen), but like everyone I have been a minor on the internet, and my personal opinion is that sure we can do everything we want to be considerate and help, save or ‘protect’ the minors in the community, but in the end it’s the minors who protect themselves? Not just rely on adults to make this a safe internet environment for you.
If people refer to themselves as a ‘child’ then please act like a child and stay away from a tickle community like this on Tumblr where it’s swarming with all kinds of people with kinks, rude people, creeps, etc. There are also nice people but still u.u A child also doesn’t go out to a club and dance:c.
I was a less innocent ‘child’ (talking about age of 14 ~ 18 here), I did go to the club at 15-16 haha oops, and yes my interest in tickling has brought me to many places on the internet from TMF to chatboxes with strangers and tickle RP’s with people who might have been dirty perverts. Did I mind? No it was my own choice, and as soon as someone got weird or creepy, as soon as I got a d*ckpic in my face, as soon as I felt I was talking with someone that wasn’t right, I quit. Block, the end.
Tumblr is a public website where people post anything and whatever they like. There is no option like on certain social media to ‘request to follow a blog’ or whatever, whether you like it or not, people can follow your blog, that’s how public this website is:(.
Still there is plenty that can be done to keep it a safe internet space for yourself as much as possible. Don’t like something/someone? Block and unfollow. Unpleasant private message? Block, delete. Not everyone will read or mind your ‘do not interact’, there are plenty of rude/creepy people who will still message you. I’m actually not sure if it’s possible to turn off chat, but at least anon can be turned off.
But theres especially nothing these creeps can do if you simply block them. If they approach you again, block them again and report. Even I have blocked plenty of blogs I either don’t want to contact me, or simply because I don’t want those people to see my posts.
And if even with the ability to block, unfollow, filtering triggering tags and everything, you still feel unsafe because anyone can still approach you or because unpleasant posts appear on your dash, then I’m afraid this just isn’t the website for you.
About platonic TK & the P-word
I won’t lie about it, a while ago I had a very salty anon in my inbox accusing me of being P. (!!!) Not that I posted the ask, it was very unfriendly and if something I do upsets you, either block me or confront me personally, not on anon so I should post the ask on my blog. I rather not:c.
FYI My times of answering public hateful asks are over hahah :”D. I’ve got better things to post*w* My chatbox is open, or you can send a non-anon ask so I can answer you privately.
But anyway: excuse me? I think after seeing some discourse I might have an inkling of who this person is so for their own protection I blocked them so they won’t see my ‘to-their-eyes-harmful-content’ on their dash again.
Again: EXCUSE ME? I’m really afraid that people on the internet are nowadays too sensitive and jumping to conclusions, and also can’t know the meaning of the P-word.
Definition = Sexual feelings directed towards children.
So to all who might have been curious: NO I DON’T HAVE THOSE WTF. And to those jumping to conclusions in no way am I defending people who are P, it’s bad and gross, I’m only saying I am not one of those. The reason for the accusation was my BNHA Special Training headcanon post, I guess because for some it’s hard to see the difference between platonic and sexual tickles where adults and minors are both involved.
If fics, posts, gifs, videos (cough, a lot of anime and cartoons, cough, sample gif under here) where adults tickle minors disgust you and make you feel uncomfortable, sure fine! Ignore them, block the people who post them! Quickly scroll past them if they still appear on your dash.
But don’t go into automatic P-accusation mode because that is not okay. Your personal preference, triggers and opinions do not necessarily say anything about the other person, so don’t be mistaken.
About writing & fandom
Last but not least, I’ve had a similar rant probably years ago because my opinion is still the same: Yes, some of my fics are noncon (interrogation style fics). Yes some of my fics are dubcon (the lee protesting). Some of my pairings I wrote are also dubious (villain x hero etc.).
But people should learn to see the difference between FICTION & REALITY! If you can’t do it and this cancel culture really is your thing, good luck canceling all authors who wrote horror books and stories with lots of gore and torture, who wrote stories about relationships between adults & minors, incest, and all the taboos, and on top of that not just these authors, but also the fandoms enjoying these things. (cough, game of thrones).
Yes, I enjoy anime and manga like Junjou Romantica, Sekaiichi Hatsukoi, Super Lovers, the holy trinity of dubious consent, relationships between older and younger guys, and more, and there might be more things I like to put in fics that just don’t feel as comfortable for you.
If you don’t like these, if they disgust you, trigger you, of course please avoid them! But don’t call me a P or r@pist or whatever for enjoying these ;w; And don’t go publicly shaming the authors of these manga and the entire studio and production teams of the anime for being p*do and psychos, who knows if they are but you can’t judge from their fictional work!
I know it’s no use and this is just the way the internet is nowadays, people will still do this, but I wanted to let you know this is my opinion on these matters and that there are no hard feelings for me if you don’t like my content, but please then just stop seeing them, and block me.
It’s basically like people who would walk on the streets and point at someone: you make me uncomfortable so get out of my sight. Sorry but I’m afraid they won’t T-T. It’s you who will need to turn away and (hopefully not) run away fast. Sure you can yell at everyone for not making the environment safe for you and I know it sucks that there are creeps out there!
But it’s sadly how the world is, and especially the internet is where people can do whatever they want, and it’s you who should choose to turn away, block, if not extreme enough more drastic steps like moving to another website or turning off your phone/computer. I know some people who deactivated their FB, Insta and Twitter because they don’t like seeing certain things, that is their choice and they have no hard feelings towards the people who make the websites dislikable even though it sucks pretty bad they had to remove their accounts.
So, with that said, I’m going back to watching Demon Slayer / Kimetsu no Yaiba yaaaay I love it so much! And no I would not like to personally slash demon throats, I just really enjoy this series alriiight:). Jkjk haha. It’s made me bawl like a baby already several times.