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Bot boy back again (now in college :D) with another idea from my brain

Idea 7: Gregory did not have abusive parents

A lot of fanfics I've read about the 3 star ending all seem to have one thing in common, Gregory having at least one bad parent. Most have Gregory's father being terrible or just having left the family. Some of them have both mother and father be horribly abusive.

I had a different idea, what if instead of abusive parents Gregory had the opposite, 2 parents who loved him more than anything else. 

That does leave us with a troublesome question, if that's the case, then why does Gregory evidently live in a box?

Let us create a timeline of possible events:

Gregory is born

At around age 2 or something, Gregory's father is now out of the picture. This isn't because he abandons his family, no. 

It is because he dies…

It is quick, unexpected, and there is no warning. The reason can be whatever you want. (The more tragic the better)

So now Gregory's mother (M from here on out) now has to singlehandedly take care of toddler Gregory.

She does an amazing job! Her normal profession as a therapist (wink) helps her a lot in making sure Gregory behaves. 

It also helps M explain to him where his father is, and helps him grasp the dark concept of death at an early age.

M also makes certain that Gregory just how much his father loved him, even if can't remember him. She makes sure to let him know he is loved by her everyday.

M also teaches him some basic housekeeping tasks, so that Gregory can take care of himself when she has late nights at work.

Then one day at work, when Gregory is around 9, M gets a new patient at work. Some blonde beta tester, the only thing of note is her inconsistent childhood memories and the fact her 4 previous therapists have gone missing. 

A bit weird and slightly concerning, but what is the worst that can happen?

… I think we all know what happened next

Gregory wouldn't suspect anything was wrong, thinking his mom is just having another late night at work.

Then some people show up, they say that his mother has *ahem* "gone missing" and that they have to take him to an orphanage for the time being.

Gregory immediately knows that his mother is dead, he can hear it when they stutter just before saying "gone missing". Ironically his mother did the same thing when she first explained where his father went.

Before he gets a chance to properly grieve, Gregory is in an orphanage with about a dozen other children. This is because he doesn't have any relatives 

Most of the caretakers there seem apathetic. Some care a bit more, but it is leagues away from how much his mother cares-... cared for him.

One of the caretakers seems to actively hurt him whenever they can. They hate kids, (Like Vanessa in the game, but without the valid excuse of being possessed by a British furry) and seemingly only took the job either as a way to get some easy money or as a chance to hurt kids.

When Gregory finally gets a chance to cry over his mother's death, that "caretaker" is there yelling at him to "stop whining and get over it"

This is too much for him so he decides to run away. He finds living in a box in an alley to be difficult, but at least no one can hurt him now.

Then the games events happen

I think that this idea could work, the sudden shift between having a loving home and then being thrown into a harsher environment would make Gregory be distrustful of adult strangers.

After everything though, things would get better. Gregory gets the father figure he never really had in the form of a robot bear (wow this series has gotten weird) and a loving…mother? Sister? Aunt figure? in Vanessa.

            Also if you're wondering how Gregory would react to learning who killed his mother, I think he would understand that it was Vanny’s doing, not Vanessa's and be quick to reassure her that he doesn't blame her. Vanessa would likely hate herself just that little bit more, knowing that it was her (noitwasvannys) who orphaned a child. 

I hope you enjoyed another rambling courtesy of me, bot boy!

Oh hope you're having fun in college!

But huh, interesting idea! I had a vague idea what I wanted to do with my Gregory's past, I even mentioned it in roleplays on the gregaverse server

Though I never was really satisfied with it, and now this my friend, if you allow I'd like to take into my greedy little hands ( つ ◕w◕ )つ

Of course, with some changes here and there to fit my au better haha I won't say what those changes are in case I ever get to actually make the comic or write it as fanfiction

But yes, I've thoroughly enjoyed your rambles XD have been helping me a lot as well cuz I've been absolutely clueless with what I want to do with Vanessa lol

The Beautiful Journey of Adoption: Embracing the Numerous Benefits

Shaina Tranquilino

December 14, 2023

Parenthood is a remarkable experience that brings joy, fulfillment, and unconditional love. While some may choose to have biological children, others find their hearts drawn towards adopting a child in need. Adoption offers countless benefits not only for the children who find loving homes but also for the adoptive parents themselves. In this blog post, we will explore the numerous advantages of adoption and celebrate the beautiful journey it entails.

1. Creating a Forever Family:

Adoption provides an opportunity to create a family where love knows no boundaries. Regardless of biological ties, the bond formed between adoptive parents and their children can be just as strong and meaningful as any other parent-child relationship. Adopting a child allows individuals or couples to experience the joys of parenthood while giving a deserving child a sense of belonging.

2. Providing Stability and Security:

Many children in foster care or orphanages yearn for stability and security in their lives. By adopting a child, you offer them a stable home environment filled with love, support, and consistency. This stability positively impacts their emotional well-being, self-esteem, and overall development.

3. Offering Unconditional Love:

Adoptive parents often possess an immense capacity to provide unconditional love to their adopted children. They understand that regardless of past circumstances or challenges faced by the child, they are worthy of love and acceptance just like any other child.

4. Fostering Growth and Development:

A nurturing home environment plays an integral role in shaping a child's growth and development. Through adoption, parents can provide opportunities for education, personal growth, hobbies, and extracurricular activities that enrich the lives of their adopted children.

5. Expanding Cultural Diversity:

Adopting across cultural lines allows families to embrace diversity within their own households. It fosters understanding, appreciation for different backgrounds, traditions, languages, and customs - creating a rich tapestry of experiences and perspectives.

6. Giving Back to Society:

Adoption is not only a transformative journey for the adoptive family but also a way to contribute positively to society. By adopting a child, you provide them with opportunities and resources they may have otherwise missed out on, helping break cycles of disadvantage and opening doors to their future success.

7. Learning and Growing Together:

Adoptive parents often find themselves embarking on a journey of personal growth, compassion, empathy, and resilience. The challenges and rewards that come with adoption can deepen relationships within families as they navigate together the unique experiences associated with this remarkable path.

The choice to adopt a child is an extraordinary act of love that brings numerous benefits for both the adopted child and the adoptive parents. From creating forever families, providing stability and unconditional love, to fostering growth and embracing diversity – adoption offers immeasurable rewards. It's a beautiful journey full of learning, personal growth, and the joy of giving back to society. So, if your heart feels called towards adoption, take that leap - change lives, create memories, and experience the incredible privilege of becoming an adoptive parent.