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This plot ruined World Tour for me. To the people who support this ship in anyway(romantically, platonically, etc): No offense, but WTF do you see in this ship that makes it "sweet and cute" and not "abusive and wrong"?! Please explain!! If you don't like my opinion: ok then. Sorry not sorry; nothing will change my mind that Sierra and her obsession is abusive to Cody, and should've been taken more seriously.
ok im home from band camp and cant promise ill be concious for much longer BUT i havent had the chance to talk abt this until now so lets talk abt canon c*derra
so for the sake of a conversation lets ignore all of the physical assult that sierra does towards cody (stealing his stuff, physically harrassing him via grabbing him, stalking him, forceibly kissing him, all without consent) even though its quite the laundry list
and just talk about how fucking manipulative she is to him mentally and verbally??? like we all remember in the london episode when she pretended to be upset with him and kept crying until he said nice things about her and only doing it for his attention, but also??? anytime something happens to cody via another party or sierra pulls him out of danger, she follows it up with "IM the ONLY PERSON who cares about you" and "im the only person that TRULY LOVES YOU and UNDERSTANDS you" to the point where he almost seems to believe her a few times?
incase anyone doesnt know much about how manipulators and abusers gain more control, one of the tactics they use to isolate their victums is by making the victum feel like no one but the abuser really cares about them or loves them, often messing with the victums head to make them push people away themselves or they do it through other methods.
Basically by saying those things to cody, she was attempting to isolate him from the rest of the cast, by convincing him that no one else cared about him other than her
this only gets worse when you remember that was made cody begin to actually like sierra in the first place was when she remembered his birthday when literally no one else did (including his own parents). im not doing to cite that as one of the times sierra was being manipulative because she didnt convice cody into believing that no one else remembered but it just went to show that sierra being the "only one who cares about him" actually WORKED and did liken sierra to him, to the point that he freaked out when he thought she was in danger
FUCK THIS RELATIONSHIP WAS SO BAD
if they were actually trying to use c*derra as an example of an abusive relationship and have cody get out of that situation and paint sierra as a bad guy i would applaud this show for how realistic the portrayal of an abuser was, but it WASNT and sierra was rewarded for being abusive and manipulative and a stalker and expected us to root for she and cody to be together which is VILE
fuck canon c*derra wow