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ENFJs, charm and leadership.

there’s always been this question for me that i can’t quite figure out, and it is ‘‘why do i appear as someone without charm and leadership skills although i get typed as ENFJ all the time?’’

but i can’t really answer myself. 

in school, i never was someone popular, i even was a victim of bullying. in highschool, i also wasn’t popular. right now, in major studies, yes i’ve been  popular among the classes i’ve been in, but i’ve never been recognized as someone with charm or leadership abilities. 

indeed, i do consider myself a person skilled with leadeship abilities, as i’ve been the leader in some important projects that succeded. i still struggle seeing me as a good leader tho.

eventhough i feel like i have no charm and leadership abilities, it’s like i’m avoiding a lot of things cause i fear what comes next instead of doing them and release the ‘‘inner’’ me, which i believe is twice as extroverted, charismatic and soulful.

i know a couple of ENFJ friends, and they are twice as fearless as me, and that bothers me cause i seem to think things more than i should. as for the rest, we are super similar.

do y’all ENFJs feel like you lack those two characteristics two?