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Your F/O If You're Sensitive To Fireworks: 🎇🎆

• Just to be clear, your f/o completely understands if you have different sensory needs and would never want to make you feel ashamed of that!

• Your f/o would never ever imply that you're overreacting and will immediately see to your comfort.

• On and around firework celebrations your f/o makes sure you eat and sleep well and get plenty of water. They'll even make your favorite food, and snuggle with you in bed.

• As firework time approaches you and your f/o grab some snacks, change into your jammies, and build a small but cozy fort.

• You have noise cancelling headphones to help block as much sound as possible. As well as a couple stim toys on your side of the fort.

• As the sun begins to set and time moves quickly to the appropriate time to set off some fireworks, your f/o pops on one of your favorite movies/shows/videos and crawls into the fort beside you.

• They wrap you up in their body, pull a cozy blanket up to you, and begin leaving soft kisses on your neck and shoulders.

• As the first fireworks of the holiday are set off your body jerks in your f/o's hold. They tighten their grip on you, whispering, "It's okay, my love, it's just fireworks, it's okay."

• As the fireworks continue, they begin to notice you shaking slightly and begin massaging your shoulders, caressing wherever you feel comfortable.

• "It's okay, my love. I'm here..."

• They do their best to keep your attention on what you're watching by making small comments like, "oh that's cool," "what the fuck are we watching," "[insert friend here] would be this character, no questions asked," "that character is cute," and various ways to say to the characters, "you are dumb!!!"

• Your f/o has your tells memorized. They can easily spot when you lie by the slightest shift in tone, the far away look when you dissociate or having flashbacks, and the way your whole body tenses when you're afraid.

• They've picked up on these emotional cues through years of loving you. You two are comfortable, and at home in each other's arms, you fit so well.

• Your f/o, not only doesn't mind when they have to comfort and assure you, but they feel honored that you have allowed yourself to be vulnerable with them.

• As the night ends for the two of you, your f/o puts on a movie/video/show that you've seen 10000 times, and you play soft music in your headphones.

• They guide your head to their chest, and let you rest upon them. Running their fingers through your hair, humming a soft tune, they gently lull you to sleep.

• "Close your eyes, my love, I'll always be there to protect you..."