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Answering the question in prev tags on main for the benefit of all djdjdjdbdbd
Is Wraith nonbinary? In my canon, yes but not yet. Wes doesn't realize it until his early adult years, when he's wearing a face mask to the store because he's sick. He looks JUST androgynous enough that someone refers to him as "they" and he basically goes "oh worm?"
Even as an adult Wes has some serious Queer Anxiety and is fairly closeted, so he only asks those in his inner circle to try using the pronoun for him. And in the end he decides he really likes he/they. He just doesn't tend to use they/them publicly because he frets about coming out. (Which isn't to say he doesn't loosen up somewhat in ghost form, which offers him a sense of anonymity. As Wraith he's a lot more open about it.)
So yeah, consider this post canon. Wes is a baby he/they enby!
Enby Wraith @bigjbonk and it's your fault /lh