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and if you're okay with people setting sexual boundaries, OH MY STARS PLEASe just let people have nonsexual boundaries too. and if you're okay with people setting nonsexual boundaries but not sexual oens... what the hell? it's really not hard to just be like "oh, [name] is uncomfortable with this, okay." and move the hell on. this applies to everyone everywhere at any time with any subject. if someone sets a boundary, fucking respect it

Y'all, I'm begging you not to be weird if someone turns you down or says no to pics/sexting/literally anything, even nonsexual things.

It's so uncomfortable when I'm like "no thanks :)" and then I have to spend 15 mins soothing you. Like it's okay if you didn't realize that was a boundry—now you know. It's okay if you misread signals—it happens. Just say "no problem, thanks for letting me know," and move tf on. Deal with that embarrassment in private. It's happened to everyone, and it sucks, I get it. Also, you need to deal with it without making it my continued concern.