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2 years ago

Self Care Wednesday

Self Care is:

Realizing that you're feeling lost lately, but also realizing that you haven't indulged in an old comfort for a long time and maybe the two are related?

Giving yourself permission to return to that old comfort, even if you have no idea of where to start

Understanding that returning to your old comfort may not feel the same, because you've changed as a person, but that's ok and it's still worth seeing if this new version of you can take comfort from the thing, too

Being patient with yourself when you feel panic that your comfort doesn't feel the same as it used to

Recognizing that the old way of getting the comfort doesn't work anymore and maybe a new way is needed

Giving yourself permission to change how you approach your old comfort thing, to see if maybe that works

Being patient with yourself when you need to because the new approach to the comfort isn't natural and your not used to it yet

Understanding that it's ok to be scared about losing the comfort thing if your new approach doesn't work

It's ok to feel like an outsider in a place that used to feel like home, even if you're not sure if the feeling is entirely in your head or not

It's ok to be simultaneously arrogant about knowing how very talented you are and terrified that you'll never be able to do the thing because of some soul deep fear that you can't stand to acknowledge

It's ok to feel clumsy and awkward when you used to feel like un-selfconscious grace

It's ok to cry because you know what steps to take in what order to get to where you want to go, but you can't bring yourself to take that first action

It's ok to cry

It's ok

It's ok

It's

Ok


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7 months ago

Anyone got some good “draw your otp as this” images I can draw? Or maybe one of those draw ur otp daily challenges thingys? I rlly like drawing my fav ships 🫶🫶🫶🫶


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