Nah But As An Asexual If You're Ok With That Sort Of Thing That's Cool - Tumblr Posts

You don't have to have sex if you don't want to

Sex isn't necessary for a happy and healthy life - whether you're in a relationship or not. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to. You can just... Not have sex.

Please never feel pressured to have sex like I have, in order to feel "normal". You are normal. Asexuality is normal. People who don't want sex who aren't asexual are normal (and, asexual people who do have and want sex, are also normal).

If you try sex and think "eh that was okay but I could do much more with my time", that's absolutely fine. You don't have to have it ever again if you don't want to. If you prefer thinking about sex than actually having sex, that's also fine (I'm guilty of this). If you want absolutely nothing to do with sex whatsoever, guess what? That's fine!

You don't have to be sexually active to be a valid person, even if you were previously. You can just not have sex. It's okay. I promise 💜