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questioning-august
8 months ago

People keep saying that shelby has the choice to share her abusers name or that she would if she wanted to. You do not know that! She may not be stating her abusers name for many reasons, including the fact she stated that the man is dangerous. Dangerous. I feel as though that is not clicking in people's heads that one of her first statements when sharing her story was that she believes he is dangerous. For all we know, if shelby were to share his name, it would put her in a worse position, and she would be unsafe. Understand that, for her sake. 🤍 support victims, always.

@shelbygraces #shubblesupportsquad

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greenytoons
8 months ago

Please listen and support shubble aka Shelby story and support and share what you can.

I am shocked by the news what happened.

And here is all I’m gonna say please again support support support Shelby. She deserves all the love and support from everyone and her story.

Stop giving attention to Wilbur.. this is not his story. This is Shelby. Again please support her and give her all the love that she needs

Again I will say this again and again.

tweet by @shelby graces that reads "thank you for listening ❤️". a statement is attached
I've thought a lot about what I would say when I came back. Firstly I want to say the biggest thank you to everyone showing their support. I have never felt so loved and cared for. And I've never seen so many communities come together to have somebody's back like this. I'm so proud of everyone taking such a powerful stance against these actions. I never could have imagined this response. While I didn't do this for myself, through sharing my story I have healed more parts of myself I had no idea were still pained. I'd like to address the apology. Quite frankly I've never seen an apology so self centered. It seems to purposely misconstrue the issue I very clearly laid out. My issue was not with being bit. It was with being HURT. And to vaguely apologize for "any hurt" while knowing we needed a safe word because I was being hurt so often by accident, and I continued to be hurt daily, is incredibly disrespectful. But not more disrespectful than not even saying my name. I believe I am referred to as "ex girlfriend" so if you don't know who he's talking about, you might not find out what he did. This is not how you take accountability. Not only are there no dms whatsoever where it is expressed that I enjoy being hurt by my partner, to imply there was consent in text over an issue that entirely happened in person, where every conversation about it happened in person, is ridiculous. He knows how often I asked for him to stop hurting me, that I didn't like it and that I didn't like being covered in bruises all the time. Entirely why he switched to biting my legs, so no one would think I looked abused. But he continued to hurt me. He either didn't take my pleas for it to stop seriously, or he didn't hear them at all.
I felt lost for so long, truly losing myself in this relationship. I abandoned my personal morals, neglected friends and lied for this person. With every time I spoke up being ignored, I shrank. lost my fight. I stayed locked in a house I had no key for and didn't even try to leave anymore. People ask why we stay, and it's so hard to explain ourselves because we've abandoned all our reasoning. I wasn't safe anymore with this person but I couldn't see that. I loved him and he told me he'd try to stop hurting me. I'm deeply saddened by how many more friends were hurt by his actions. But I'm so thankful to everyone doing the absolute most in making sure I've been ok over the last few days. Thank you to everyone who's reached out to me. Thank you #ShubbleSupportSquad, every day I read your messages and see your art, and it makes me feel truly like the bravest girl in the world. I think the good that comes out of victims sharing their experiences so others can learn and avoid similar pain, or come to terms with ways they were mistreated, is the most important thing in this moment. You cannot treat people this way without consequence. You cannot pretend you don't know the harm you cause. You cannot pretend going to therapy fixes all past mistakes. All of the love that's been shared for me over the past few days, is for every victim of abuse. Our lives are forever changed by these experiences. I now struggle with memory problems and extreme anxiety. And it may be awhile before I feel fully like myself, whoever she is. But I know I have my spark back. Please remember how brave and how strong you are. We shouldn't be expected to be silent when we are mistreated.

shelby’s recent statement on twitter

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thatsecondperson
8 months ago

I wanna make a post talking about Wilbur Soot because what he did wasn't right. I won't be posting anymore Lovejoy content or Wilbur Soot content. Finding out he is an abuser and a disgusting person has totally turned me away. I hope you guys can understand. And also to Shubble, remain strong honey. I'm so sorry you had to go through that abuse from someone you trusted. <3 If Wilbur Soot is able to change, maybe own up to his mistakes or give a proper damn apology, then I'll think about coming back. The fact that his friends instantly called him out for his shitty apology shows how frequent these anger and abuse problems are. Now looking back at videos of tommy flinching whenever Wilbur Soot raised his hand in the slightest. This is the end of the Lovejoy and Wilbur Soot era for me. Goodnight.

(Edit: Many of my friends have been asking if I'll still listen to lovejoy. I'm afraid the answer is no. There is the term "Separate the art from the artist" but I just can't. Whenever I listen to them, I feel sick to my stomach. I'm not going to be supporting them and I'm no longer going to wear my Lovejoy merch. I've removed any and all posts about Wilbur or Lovejoy on my blog. Sincerely, Dylan)

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