So Tell Them Even If You Feel Like Its Wrong - Tumblr Posts
1 year ago
Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
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It’s a collective mixture of 1) not wanting to sound like I’m blaming someone and 2) not wanting to bother people
this is not healthy
I know it’s not healthy
but I also do not like being a nusiance to people.
So instead of actually openning up I just drop HINTS that things may be wrong
and pray they ask about it
and also pray that I don’t completely shut it down
my friends
dont be like me
have trust in people please.
The people who are around you care if something happens to you
so tell them even if you feel like it’s wrong
it’s better to know if someone is with you or against you than to be contastly guessing.
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