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I hope one day I can find a relationship like yours 🥺😍

Awee I hope you do as well 💕 my best advice for finding a relationship like mine is to invest your time and energy into the things that bring you joy and, don't let anyone guilt or shame you into not living the life you want. Once you're living for yourself it becomes far easier to find the people that are right for you.

(Also!!!! If you happen to find someone that feels like all you've ever wanted k!nk wise but then their behavior causes you to feel horrible, it's not worth it! The reason why I had the time and energy for the events that caused me and @knottydevil to meet was that I cut off completely from someone I was giving a lot of time to because they felt amazing in k!nk but sporadically ghosted me causing a roller coaster of emotions that was ultimately incredibly detrimental to my mental health)

You don't have to love yourself to be loved but, if you want to find someone who will love you in a way that makes you go "oh, this is what it's supposed to feel like" it's easier if you aren't constantly hiding parts of yourself to be more palatable.