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I really like the dynamic between the Berzattos
I really like the dynamic between the Berzattos
I really like the dynamic between the Berzattos
I really like the dynamic between the Berzattos
Some thots about the loml and some of the women in his life
Rewatched ‘fishes’ and it got me thinking how carm is telling donna that she’s not alone he’s right there with her. Then later he’s telling syd she’s not alone.
Like he has these really important women in his life who keep telling him different versions of feeling like he’s abandoning them
His mom first, then even with sugar cause he doesn’t call or text back or try to spend time with her after he gets back from New York
Then with Sydney and their goals for the bear, bailing on her over and over on this project that was *his* dream that she wanted too
And it feels like each time he’s reassuring them he gets closer to truly meaning it.
With Donna it’s clear to me he’s trying to smooth things over, appease her so she doesn’t flip shit, he’s trying to maintain the peace
With sugar he does eventually try to see it from her side and that she’s trying to be there for him but she needs him too because she also lost a brother and he’s acknowledging he wasn’t there the way he should be
And then with syd , she’s feeling like she can’t trust her partner in these goals they shared after he had made it seem like he was in it and she was doing so much on her own and when she did finally talk to him about it he actually pushes her to say more and be honest with him so he can reciprocate and be there for her
Then there’s Claire and Claire didn’t really need him to be there for her. She’s never really needed him the way others have. So it was just easy to ‘be there’ and sort of avoid having to actually show up for the others and what he needed to be responsible for even though he knows that’s where he’s actually needed.
