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Day 9 - Wants and Needs
Usually these two are complete polar opposites of each other but the process is similar. Both are easily attainable mentally where we can imagine them in our lives. However the difference between what we want and what we need is the fact that wants are generally what we plan for, what we seek and generally what we believe would make our life perfect yet may be poor for us either mentally, physically or both. We focus on the wants and what makes them so easily imagined is that we may come to fantasize about them more often as we picture our ideal lifestyle. It may be a life of fame and fortune or a minutely detailed 10 year plan regarding education and a career. Not all wants are bad but when it's a want based on superficial terms such as materialistic gain it becomes more of a false sense of fulfillment rather than actual happiness because all you're seeking is something that will provide happiness for only a brief moment. Once you get what you want the high never lasts so you move onto another materialistic want which again only provides satisfaction for a short amount of time. Regardless these wants are part of what we hope for and what we strive to attain and very rarely do they have an affect on our character since we can generally see it coming. When we obtain what we want it becomes almost like an ego boost.
Needs are different insofar as they are what builds our character and shapes us for the better. They are the counterbalance to our wants. Very rarely do we imagine something we need as something favourable. Generally they hinder the process of getting all that we want especially when the wants have to do with materialistic or superficial gain. A life of fame and fortune needs a strong sense of self as well as self-inflicted limitations in order to stay grounded and not get swept up by the excessive lifestyle. A rigid lifestyle filled with plans and structure may need flexibility in order for someone to maintain a sense of self and happiness in life rather. Focusing on one goal is not bad however, narrowing your mind solely on one aspect may disregard all other possibilities and this may prevent a chance at actually living rather than just existing. When we know we need something it most likely goes against what we want in order to create a balance. At times we don't accept what we need, ignore what is necessary and focus solely on what we want in order to be happy.
Wants are what are looking to achieve whereas needs are what maintains these achievements while making sure they do not become excessive. Acquiring too much of your wants