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badboneszone
1 year ago

I get why non-californians aren't comfortable with being called "dude" but it really is a gender neutral term here. I call my mom dude. Elderly waitresses are dudes. Small insects I notice throughout my day are dudes. Kitchen utensils I cannot find are dudes.

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my NB friend asked me to stop calling them dude because it felt like misgendering which is totally valid and I’m glad they pointed it out but I had never thought of dude as a gendered term until then
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