You're Not An Ally If You Sexualise Anyone Without Consent - Tumblr Posts

Real, and yeah i mightve been harsh, it is fine to have preferences for certain types of dudes as long as you dont treat them or different types of dudes like shit. I personally have a hunch that the mistreatment of fem guys has got something to do with toxic masculinity- if a guy is fem hes either

uwu cute sexual object

not a guy

and it just rubs me the wrong way cause im a trans guy who used to present fem, but was still a boy- but some people thought they could just see that and start misgendering me again? its bs.

Trans "allies" when they see a trans femboy/not passing boy:

awww, so soft and cute! your a little uwu boy huhhh?

Trans "allies" when they see a trans man/passing boy:

ew.

(or)

*blatantly sexualizes either of them for no reason, without their consent*

(some trans boys like being an "uwu"/"soft"/"cute" boy but not all of us- esspecially ones that arent passing yet- it can even hurt. feels like your infantilizing us in a way yk.)