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Hey! Quick Question about Pressure Lore...

So, I've started playing Pressure recently, getting into the Fandom, and with that comes the Zerum allegations. Can someone dumb it down for me? I've seen some saying they are canonically married, some saying it isn't Canon but Zerum is trying to claim it is, and a bunch of other things. So can someone please dumb it down for me?

(And for the person who asked for the Leo Valdez fiction, I swear Im trying to work on it but I have two presentation slideshows due this week, plus 5 people's laundry, plus dishes and I just got done pulling weeds outside)