Pride Flag Series 2024: Purple Fields

Pride Flag Series 2024: Purple Fields

It’s the Asexual pride flag!!

Pride Month Aspec Headcanons Day 2

Edward Nygma - Gotham (2014-2019) - Arospec Demisexual

Naturally, since yesterday was Oz, today is Ed

@arabriddler has a good post about Ed being demi, which I will reblog after this. It about covers it, though I will add that he also knew Lee for years before they got together, too. Isabella is a whole different thing and lots of projection and yada yada and I don't feel like getting into it here. Mainly, the connection between Isabella and Kristen says a lot and further proves how he's demi to me

Arospec: throughout canon, it becomes clear that Ed has a complicated relationship with all forms of love, what it means to love and be loved, etc. Add in more in love with the idea of Kristen than her actual self, explicitly telling Oswald he doesn't love him (though that is also contributed to by other things), not being able to tell Lee he loves her, and we've got quite a set up for arospec Ed

Plus, if you hc Ed as bi as well, (which,,, why wouldn't you?) repression caused by comphet would also repress any feelings he also has revolving around being on the a-spectrum, and thus contributing to him being the way he acts and tries to present himself vs who he actually is.

Also, he's a walking aro flag color scheme from season 3 onwards, so. If Oswald can be ace and a walking ace flag, he can be arospec and a walking aro flag

not too happy with the coloring on this but. gay ace ozzie!!! when he said "i don't even date" like he's had to explain that a million times before i felt that in my BONES do you hear me. also ignore the umbrella idk what penguins or umbrellas look like apparently

Reblog this if you support sex-averse and sex-repulsed aces, including:

Aces who never want to have sex

Aces who had sex in the past but don't desire it anymore

Aces with sexual trauma who feel like their trauma ties into their asexuality

Aces with sexual trauma who don't feel like their trauma caused their asexuality

Aces who don't want to talk to you about sex

Aces who don't want to hear about sex

Yes even aces who do not want to engage with any sexual content and don't want it in their own personal spaces

Yes even aces who express the desire to have more spaces for queer adults where their boundaries are met (on top of the queer spaces that exist, we do not want to sanitize your existing spaces ffs)

If you cannot be normal about these people existing, if you believe they're a threat to our community and to how we're viewed by people who aren't aspec and the rest of the LGBTQ+ community, you are not an asexual ally. Yes, even if you're aspec yourself. Especially if you're aspec yourself.

Because it's been pride month for 4 days and I'm already seeing people trying to throw us under the bus or pretend we don't exist because that makes the ace community more palatable to exclusionists and people who swallowed too much "aces are puritans" propaganda.

ask me to drop me on the ace-spectrum-Ed essay pls pls pls

Shout out to all of my asexual alloromantics who have been told that their relationships are invalid because "you're asexual you can't have a romantic partner"

Just know they're wrong, and your romantic relationships are valid, even if you're ace <3

Shout out to all my aromantic allosexuals who go through the same thing (but vice versa)! I have a harder time understanding you (as a asexual biromantic person--) but that does not make you any less valid. You're just as valid as anyone who's part of the LGBTQ community <3

Happy Pride Month to all the aroaces who get told that their friendships will "turn into something more", especially those which are with the opposite gender.

Shout out to sex/romance repulsed aspecs, shout out to sex/romance positive aspecs, Shout out aspecs!!!

Happy Pride Month Aspec community :3

Happy Pride Month to my girlfriend who isn't on here but who I'm running off to smooch rn

Also I hope this post made sense I'm not very good with words LMAO

Don't come for me I just wanted to show love to my aspec friends and fellow community :3