Whoever Is Mad At Tommy Kinards Behavior Sure As Hell Wont Survive A Sec With This Cunt

whoever is mad at tommy kinard’s behavior sure as hell won’t survive a sec with this cunt

the bucktommy fandom is so hilarious because we love tommy and buck together obviously but we're also like "would you like some saltommy? how about josh and eddie? sure, buddie is cool too! let's discuss buddietommy. maybe chimney and tommy could've been a thing? should all of buck's ex-girlfriends pair up? can lou ferrigno jr crush me with his thighs?"

And this isn’t new to 911 obviously because as long as I’ve been in fandom (12 years) the loudest voices in most of them have been people that love gay ships but don’t quite see gay men as people, much less people that could be in the fandom. And it’s been dressed up a lot of ways: making one side of the m/m ship more feminine the other more masculine, fanon characterizations that basically turn one of the men into a gender neutral at best self insert for the fandom, self-lubricating rectums becoming a genre in and of itself, outright apathy towards canon gay characters in favor of the fandom-dominant ship that better fit the “Destiel Formula,” etc but it all came back to the same underlying issue: a significant portion of fandom doesn’t view gay men in anything but the abstract, as LEGO bricks to be reassembled at will to better suit their whims or as dolls to smash together.

At the end of the day, every problem I have with fandom seems to come back to the knowledge that some of them don’t see me as a gay man as a person, but as fic trope. And that’s exhausting.

Here’s how Bobbymichael bestfriendism can still win

I am B E G G I N G people to remember that Buck isn't a child nor is he a virgin. He is a grown man who knows how relationships work.

And while we're here... teasing is a thing friends do, adults mostly, when they want to give each other shit but also get their point across without being too fucking serious. This isn't Mean Girls, and Tommy is not Regina George, so please park your bus.

The more time passes. The more we have BuckTommy scenes. The more I see myself in them. The more I see people reacting toward them. The more I see the hate. The less I feel safe in what was once my safe-place

Oh my god y'all are so fucking exhausting you get literally the most innocuous scene of a character saying he's letting his boyfriend set the pace in the relationship and immediately it's like "poor Oliver he deserves better than this:(" what do you mean???? What show are you watching where any of this is wrong??? Gay men are talking about how represented they feel by Tommy and y'all keep shitting on him, demonizing everything he does using literal homophobic arguments, then turn around saying bisexuals deserve better rep??? It literally shows someone letting their partner set the pace while they discover this part of themselves how much better can it be. Not surprising coming from the same people who don't understand why showing a close friendship between a queer and straight man is important. Stop parading your ship wars as social justice because the people that should feel represented do.